Here we go again
SD, 17, calls DH yesterday at work. She needs to see him because she is SOOOOO UPPPPSEEET. She wouldn't tell him why over the phone. DH goes to see her after work. She is upset because BM has accused her of stealing her debit card. BM couldn't find the debit card so she blamed SD. Keep in mind BM accused her of stealing it because she has stolen in MULTIPLE times in the past. When DH told me, I don't realize my eyes could roll back in my head that far. SD said she didn't steal the card THIS time. I had to remind DH trust is something that is EARNED.
I was reading another post stating that her SD manipulates her DH whenever he visits her away from the house. I finally realized that SD is doing the same with DH. She doesn't visit her at my house and I rarely see her. She visits DH outside of the house.
Whenever SD is with DH, she keeps bringing up a past incident where social services was called and Dh and I were investigated. She keeps telling her dad that it was my fault social services was called or that I called social services. DH is not falling for it or so he says. There are times he visits with her and he comes back moody. I am almost certain that she is trying her best to break us up by manipulating him. DH would never admit to that. He keeps telling me that SD must be hearing the information from BM. I can't imagine BM talking about this incident over and over again. Social Services has been called on BM multiple times. I can't believe that BM is really concerned that DH and I were investigated once.
For a little over a year now, DH has been mentioning the same incident every time he visits her.