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Well this weekend we had the children...Love having my son, SD not so much...

So Sat she was with me all day. She slept late, Thank God, and had to babysit at night. (I got her the job :? ) So the day went pretty well. I was out most of the day doing errands. Children are 20, 16, and 14, can stay alone, Right? well you would think that...So I get home from my errands SD16 sitting in living room and asks..."where were you? AHHHH Food shopping so we can eat this week...Not cocky but a little like thinking to myself none of your buisness but whatever...So I start putting things away and she is under my feet asking all these question...What are you guys doing tonight? Why are you not staying home? What time do you think these people will get home? I hope I am not babysitting all night. Do you think i can tell them to be home by 10? NOOOOO I was like SD the more hours you have the more money you will get...She says i feel a little anxiety i am not sure I want to do this so i think I am going to bail... :jawdrop: So I explain to her these people are counting on you and have no sitter but you..You have to do it now...If you didnt want to do it you should of told me awhile ago....She says sorry Im not doing it!!! So of course i leave the kitchen go to my bedroom and call DH....Thank god he comes home about half hour later and explains to SD you are doing it but we will make sure we do not count on her again...DH was pissed...So of course she starts crying but goes....We went out for dinner with friends...SD called his phone 4 times...Then called us at 11 was on her way home so of course we were still out but my boys 20 and 14 were home so DH says to SD the boys are home we will be home soon. NOW GET THIS!!! She says well i want you home now I am on my way...ARE YOU KIDDING ME!!!!!! So guess what happened we ended up leaving 10 min after her call. I only found out what she said after the fact...If I would of known she said that i would of stayed out alot later...WTF...Who does this little girl think she is....

Then the next morning my DH and I were on the deck having coffee because it was so nice out and there she is like a 6 year old watching us through the sliders.....CALL YOUR BOYFRIEND!!!!! I mean I dont know what to do with this child....I mean my boys, i never even know there here...They play PS, they have friends over, my youngest plays guitar so he is always in his room jamming, oldest is leaving to go back to college my youngest says man mom I am going to miss him around here and be left with weirdo (SD) LOL poor kid...I mean I just dont understand its like she is going backwards 16 going on 6...and when we got home sat...She sat near daddy and wanted to hear all about his night and what he ate and where we were and blah blah blah...I went to bed!!!! My boys said have fun mom, yes i did and good night....O...M...G....This kid needs HELP!!!!

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daisy0202's picture

Yes he feeds into it and i try to tell him not to...That night he picked up his phone to check on her and our friend and i told him to not call....If she has a problem you know she will call dont make it worse...Then he put the phone away....Yes he is worried about her and i understand that but you cant feed her and he does so it makes it alot worse...