Update on Vaca
Vacation went well. I had a really good time. Kid crap came up a couple of times SD decided our vacation was a good time to bring up a nose ring again which SO asked me what to say. I told him I am going thru that with you . She is your daughter. He of course wanted An answer from me as always so kept at me. I said it is not my decision to be made please stop asking. He then tried to make a compromise with her about waiting until after Christmas when she is 17 and she wasn't going for it. SS called and said that he missed a school assignment and BM was all over him about it ( I definitely think she should be) and I guess told him she was against him playing basketball because he needs to get his priorities straight. I was in the other room getting ready and could hear some of it. It was a short conversation because SS was almost in tears. Oh poor baby. But then I was drying my hair and could see thru the door and SO was texting BM and everytime I shut the dryer off he would put the phone down . I off course looked at the the text because that is what I do. He was asking BM about the missed assignment and sting SS was crying. She said she doesn't want him playing basketball because it is all too much. SO agreed SS Ned to get all work done but he can play basketball as long as it doesn't interfere with his baseball practices that will be starting. Really SO , this is the perfect time for SS to be told NO you can't do all the sports . Plus he snuck and texted BM . It was about the SS but still. I don't like when I see these things going on because it makes me feel he lies to me.