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Update on fight

Crr18's picture

So it has been a week since the fight between SO and BM. She said she was done communicating with him. Guess what not one peep from her all week and things were easier with the schedule . SO told SS the days and times he would pick him up and what he was able to for him this weekend. Of course I saw it as easier SO sees it as not knowing what his kids are doing even though he talks to them everyday . Not my fault he doesn't have a relationship with them.  My stress level was down . This does not mean I am staying I am just updating that I am correct they do not need constant communication. 

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Crr18's picture

She started texting again. He is damaged because he had yet another opportunity to say something to her about scheduling and boundaries when she started up again.

Crr18's picture

Nope I know and he is lying to me about it.  I of course had snooped on the phone but he said something that he couldn't have heard from SS and I called him out on it and he tried all he could to get out of saying she is communicating with him again.  It was like a trapped mouse. Then he now has admitted he needs to lie to me to keep me from being upset.  There is a saying "It is better to tell the truth and make me cry, then to lie and make me smile."  He will never ever get it. And I don't want to fight today. It's my birthday and 8 don't want to fight today. It is already bad enough i am getting so old! Lol

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He just admitted to me she started texting him again. I said you know this fight was the perfect opportunity to say something about boundaries and you didn't take it. He said I am trying and then said I was starting something and he should have kept lying about her texting. He isn't trying. I can't wait to get out but the apartments I want to be in don't have openings right now.

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That is pretty much what it comes down to . I want to be near where I work and some places in that area are not so nice.and I need to be in my price range.