SO and I are not married so we celebrate our anniversary as the day we met. That was yesterday. SS hasn't stayed with us for months decided to invite friends over and then they left early and SS decided to watch a movie with us and stay the night. SO won't ask BM or SS what is going on but I know something had to happen at BMs. SO doesn't see an issue: I ask for signs all the time and this has to be a big one that I need to get out. Why else would this happen on a night we should have been celebrating alone.