Always thinking ahead
I guess it is because of past behavior that I let thinking ahead take up too much space in my mind. I am very much an ovethinker and assume what will happen. At my last job that is what always was bad in my review so I know I do it. Also I always have one foot out the door. Right now I am thinking about what happens when SD ages out and goes to college while SS is still under CS. SD is in 11th grade and BM has been taking her on college visits. Which I go back and forth with because SO is missing out on it but then if he was taking her on the visits then it would seem like he was willing to pay. But I am guessing BM will still boss SO around about SD because she will still be in contact about SS. I am talking about telling SO it is his turn to pick SD up college and SD needs this and that. SO and I have talked in-depth about this but I know he will cave because it will be he is doing it for SD. Does anyone else let the what ifs take up too much space in their heads, even though it is far away?