Seeking advice.....My boyfriends 9 year old princess is so jealous and disrespectful towards me.  I have been in her life for 3 years and I'm not going anywhere, but she seems to think that the more she pushes and plays me against her dad I will walk away.  Some days I get so exhausted trying to ignore her antics I feel I just can't any more.  When all is finally calm for the night most times I retreat to the bedroom and just cry in frustration.