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Oh Wow. You know BM is behind this!

CompletelyPuzzled's picture

DF spoke the SDs on the phone last night. We were in their home state last week while the kids were on Spring Break. We spent a lot of time talking about our upcoming summer. This will be the first time the SDs have visited DF since he moved out of their home state. They will be coming to stay at our house. And, we are planning to take them to a nearby vacation spot. The girls were extremely excited about the idea. We had brochures and flyers. DF and I were surprised when neither of the SDs asked about BM joining us on vacation. If you've read my previous blogs, you know that BM has asked several times about staying at our house over the summer so she can accompany us on vacation.

Well, we were grateful too soon. When SD9 got on the phone with DF, she told him that she didn't want to go on vacation with us this summer. When DF asked her why, she refused to say. DF and I both know that BM is behind this. After asking her several times, SD9 told DF that it wasn't fair that she and SD7 would get to go on vacation without their half-siblings. SD9 told us that she didn't think it was fair. Of course, BM sends DF a text after the conversation saying that she had nothing to do with it. I really hate BM sometimes! The SDs were so excited about this and she has to go and ruin it. I just don't understand a mother like that. Why would you intentionally turn your kids into pawns??? I have two bios and I would never make them unhappy just to get back at their dad. It makes no sense. I am venting right now, b/c my first instinct is to text that stupid cunt and tell her what I think of her mothering. Of course, if you listen to her talk she is MOTY! What a bitch. Okay, I am done.

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bearcub25's picture

Your BM is jealous bc she doesn't get vacations and fun things obviously.

My SD13 was invited to go to the beach with her BFFs (twins) and their family this summer. SD has been staying with these people on weekends for 2 years, so not like some random strangers. BM is pissed. She thinks someone will take SD or something.

No, BM is just jealous bc she doesn't get to go to the beach or on a vacation or have anyone that would want to take her on vacation.

QueenBeau's picture

Wow, that's crazy. SD7 loves her (half)brother & she didn't give a rats behind about him not going with us to the beach. She understands he has his own daddy & his daddy can take him on a vacation.