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Colorado Girl's picture

I came here to whine, instead I am humbled by my friends who are suffering far greater than me.

5teens and Sia... I am so sorry for your life's troubles right now. Sad

My woes of what may be tomorrow seems miniscule.

My final orders hearing is tomorrow and I'm nervous. My BS12's therapist is being a little uncooperative as far as testifying being that she wants to have biodad into her office before tomorrow. :? Only problem is that not only does biodad refuse to agree on a therapist, but is also telling tall tales as to when exactly his grand return actually is. His attorney told therapist early March, when in fact our final orders hearing is tomorrow and HE postponed the date to one of HIS chosing to accommodate his return. So what in the world is his lawyer talking about?

Anyways, my lawyer said so be it and we move forward. So after the therapist took it upon herself to contact my attorney, she extended her discontent letting me know that she felt a little "put out". :? My mind was saying "well, gee, you dumbass, you've known about this court date for 2 months and thanks for having my lawyer reiterate our last conversation at $275 an hour. And aren't I paying you for all your precious time at $150 an hour????"

Instead those words, lost in translation from my head to the tip of my tongue, came out as "Oh thank you so much for your time and effort..."

What a f#cking joke. Here I am receiving not a dime of the ordered child support, paying for a therapist whose time is obviously more valuable than my son's best interest and whose necessity would be obsolete if it weren't for this jackass trying to get every other weekend visitation after TWELVE years of no contact.

I am so beside myself at the injustice of it all. Well, I'm about tapped out my friends. Don't be overly suprised if you read about a crazy girl going a little ballistic in Colorado.

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Sita Tara's picture

Breathe deeply...and know that we are all sitting with you, right beside you, glaring at that jerk (or rather his lawyer if he isn't there.)

"Om Tare Tutare Ture Mama Ayurpunye Jnana Putin Kuru Svaha"
~Sita Tara Mantra

Dawn-Moderator's picture

with the world, ya know? If he's been out of contact for 12 years and then the court turns around and gives him visitation, it's so not right. Let him wait until your son is 18 and can decide himself if he wants to see him.

I'll be thinking about ya and watching the news tomorrow! Please update when you can.

Dawn

Anon2009's picture

I'll be thinking of & praying for you! If biodad has not taken it upon himself to be a part of your son's life for 12 years, then he should not get visitation. I will be praying for you and BS12.

Colorado Girl's picture

Court is in 6 hours. I took the day off from work because my nerves are shot.

I think I'm going to get a pedicure...relax a little bit.

Would it be terrible if I brought wine to court with me????

"For every ailment under the sun....There is a remedy, or there is none;
If there be one, try to find it; If there be none, never mind it." ~ W.W. Bartley

stepwitch's picture

Silly girl....luv ya...tick tock...let is know what happens. Zen is right....we got ur back sweetie! And I'll drink the wine for you. Relax !

Stepwitch
Thank you Disney for portraying a positive image on all stepmothers!!!!

sarahbernheart's picture

put the wine in a bottle with a little 7-up and no one will be the wiser.
good luck sweetie.
big hugs to you.

"Better a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without one."

Colorado Girl's picture

Wink

Tell 'em it's cherry flavored.

"For every ailment under the sun....There is a remedy, or there is none;
If there be one, try to find it; If there be none, never mind it." ~ W.W. Bartley

sweetthing's picture

I will add you to my list of good thoughts for my step sisters!

smurfy1smile's picture

At the age of 12, a child IMO has the right to choose if they go on visitation, at least to some extent. Court ordered or not - I can't imagine a judge will force a child to spend lots of time, at first, with someone they don't know. Sorry your therapist is being a butt.

stepwitch's picture

Waiting to see how court went......

Stepwitch
Thank you Disney for portraying a positive image on all stepmothers!!!!

DISbelief's picture

How did it go????

DISbelief~

~You have to BE crazy to UNDERSTAND crazy!~ ; )