He heard us last night
Last night after the boys went to bed, STBDH and I decided to get intimate. No big deal. The kids were asleep( or so we thought). We weren't even loud. But I guess Ss9 heard us last night. He called Bm and she went balistic demanding STBDH call her this morning.
He did and she went off. He didn't even try with her. When she started going off, he hung up. The thing is though, this isn't the first time we've had sex while the skids were here. We alternate weeks with crazy. Plus we weren't even being loud. That's something we're always very conscious about. We always take the apprioiate measures. i.e wait for the kids to be asleep, keep our door locked, turn the tv in our room for white nosie, and we're mindful about the noise. The basics are covered.
How new home is, The master and kids room are on oppsite sides of the house. Like I said before, This isn't the first time we've done it while they were over and had no problems before. The only way for ss9 to have heard exactly what was going on was to be listening right outside the door.
ss10 doesn't cause me any problems at all. His "dad C" loves him beyond words. I actually look forward to his visitation weeks. With ss9, I start the coundown when he walks in.
STBDH going to be talking to ss9 when he gets back from school today. I'm going to take my time getting home.
On the postive note, STBDH and I are tying the knot on April 3rd.
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LOL. SD12 heard us one night
LOL. SD12 heard us one night, she started to say something the next morrning, but thought better of it once she realized what she was saying. Her room is on the other side of the house, but she could have gone to the kitchen for some water...
I'm letting his dad handel
I'm letting his dad handel this. When he called me and told me, he started laughing. We always make sure that the boys have a big of water with them before the go to bed. They also have a jack and jill bathroom if they need to use the washroom. So I have no idea what he was doing.
I told STBDH to have fun with this. Regardless, I'm taking my sweet time going home.
Good for him for hanging up
Good for him for hanging up on BM. Can you even imagine calling your ex and reaming him a new one for that? She's got nerve.
I'm so glad for him for not
I'm so glad for him for not taking her crap. He's always been very good on setting boundaries with her. I would die of shame if I ever did that.
Till this day, she has issues with STBDH getting remarried. That too with another man. It's actually very entertaining. Meh- Her lose was my gain
My XH would have lost his
My XH would have lost his mind if I had married a woman after him. He never fully bought my bisexuality because he never saw me sleep with a woman. Therefore, he never felt threatened by other women. I fully believe if I married a woman, he'd have lost his mind because not only had I moved on, but I would have moved on with someone he saw as lesser. *eyeroll*
Your XH sounds like the male
Your XH sounds like the male equivalent of Bm.
Maybe we should get them together
My XH found a new wife who
My XH found a new wife who controls EVERY aspect of his life, just like his beta-sub-baby arse wanted.
Sorry, was that patronizing? #sorrynotsorry
HAHA
I found it more humorous that patronizing.
However the the more the merrier. I think the three of them would have an adventurous life
Sounds like BM is jealous...
Sounds like BM is jealous...
and she should be
and she should be
"How dare you get intimate
"How dare you get intimate with your fiance after the kids were supposed to be in bed!"
*eye roll* My goodness. Controlling much??? Kids snoop, he'll be fine. You two are WAY more thoughtful then PLENTY of others!
Crazy loves being in control.
Crazy loves being in control. I honestly don't know how STBDH was married to the beast
I think the majority of us
I think the majority of us are a bit floored at the people our partners were somehow with previously. LOL
LMAO! That is too funny.
LMAO! That is too funny.
My kids have had a late night knock on the door while we were in the middle of things. It takes a minute to scramble and get robes on to answer the door. I am sure they heard things standing right outside the door but oh well!
LOL
LOL
STBDH said that he was thankful that ss didn't knock. He didn't want any interruptions
*chuckle chuckle*
I would be such a butt about this
With the skid, if nothing else. I'm talking plungine necklines and extra affectionate with the hubby. Lots of closed door time, just to gross them out.
This is one of the parts of skidom that I hate the most... I don't like something so I'm gonna report it to my other parent so that you can get in trouble. And the butthead Xs always take the bait and confront the issue, just because they can, which encourages the skids more. I absolutely cannot stand it! Go spy on someone else, please!
We're pretty affectionate
We're pretty affectionate already. We're crazy about eachother. We keep it mature though when in front of the skids. Hugs, cuddles, pecks etc. We want to show the skids what a loving relationship looks like where both partners respect and love eachother. I'm down to take it up the level if need be. Ss10 already said "we're too cute" and wishes that someday he can find what me and his dad have. That kid is the apple of my eye.
ss9 is totally Bm's right hand man. He's her little spy.
Well hopefully SS learned a
Well hopefully SS learned a valuable lesson, when snooping you might not like the things you hear.
Hopefully.
Hopefully.
If not, then he's just gonna have to learn the hard way.
My asshole SS12 walked in in
My asshole SS12 walked in in us cuz we forgot to lock the door. We have the kids 90% and we also wait til after bedtime. I hope he enjoyed seeing his dad's ass in the air. #1 Knock. #2 if no one is bleeding and nothing is burning go back to bed.
That would do it
I bet he learned his lesson
SS is getting his jolly off
So what, That life, if you seek, you will find. I would be more worried that SS would want to hear this.? There something wrong with him? Last thing I would ever want to hear is my parents doing it
Yuck
I really hope he was just snooping and not being a little pervert. That would definitely cause some problems
That is so funny. Good for
That is so funny. Good for your man for hanging up - what an utterly ridiculous fuss.
Sometimes, in the heat of the
Sometimes, in the heat of the moment, we can be louder than we think we are. Oh well.
My BS - then 10 - with a knowing look, told me one morning "You need to learn to be more quiet."
Ooops.
LOL Your STBDH should told BM
LOL Your STBDH should told BM that what he does in his house is his business unless it is endangering the child. That is just stupid.
My SD11 reported to my DH and
My SD11 reported to my DH and I that she heard her mom and her mom's new bf because she was up listening to them until 3am when she was supposed to be sleeping. This was when BM was still "hiding" her new bf from SD and us....not doing very well at it obviously. Anyways, we did not call BM and go off on her. We told SD that she should mind her own business and not be spying on people. Now if she had told BM that she heard us I guarentee BM would be trying to go off on my DH over it. When I was pregnant she was worried about where we conceived our child....really?!?! Crazy, crazy women!
I bet he never heard a thing
I bet he never heard a thing and was lying to BM. Just so happened that you were but I doubt he really knew.
I so do not miss
I so do not miss those days! SS went through a perv stage after he supposedly was up using the bathroom and heard us one time. We would just be laying there nodding off and hear a faint noise outside our door. Damned if it wasn't him lurking right on the other side! But he of course made a huge deal about how "upset" he was and got his sister all worked up which set BM into a frenzy accusing DH of being a "sex fiend." The whole thing was a bucket of cold water on my libido since it was not long after that they started the round robin of moving in and out depending on which parent was kissing their asses the hardest at the moment. Months would go by and then I would find him outside our door again. I would make sure that your DH impress upon him in the strongest possible terms that intruding on your private time is disrespect that will not be tolerated again. Mine failed to do that to a point that it was understood and it was a major blow to my trust in him, my feeling of privacy in my own home, and our intimacy..
Lol i can just imagine my hubbys exwife sending
messages via eldest sd22 phone (yup thats how she contacts hubby although very rarely), ranting how the girls heard him have sex with his wife.
There wouldn’t be a response to his daughters phone, he’d ignore it and if sd brought it up hubby would say his sex life with his wife is none of their and their mums concern.
we’ve had sex even when sd have come on family visits for weddings and stuff. We’re not noisy but hell no would i not have sex with my spouse because skid might hear... sex is part of releasing tension from all this blended family crap at times
Ew. If DH and I split and our
Ew. If DH and I split and our son told me he heard that late at night from dad's room, I'd give him a pair of headphones and tell him to mind his business if it happens again. Do what kids in intact families do... Put your headphones in and watch TV/play music until you can fall back asleep. Duh.