Feral Forger SD22 and her needles
I posted earlier this week about Feral Forger, and her wanting to move back in with us...because Toxic Troll and her have been fighting and shes been told she needs to move out. For probably the 10,000th time.
I just know this because of her broadcast text to DH Clan Group text thread, where she screen captured TT telling her "F U, I cant stand you, you need to get out in 5 days..." etc. And she got some sympathy - 2 out of the 20 plus family called DH about it, and he had to explain "Life Choices Feral Forger-style".
After her broadcast sympathy grab, she of course texted DH, because she wants to move back in with us...and he told her kindly that her life choices make it so that nothing would change her problems would follow her and be just as bad at our place (I truly understand he cannot be the bad guy that tells her outright "no") and of course she told him "your just a sperm donor".
Then a few hours later she texted me "since youve come into my fathers life, I havent had a dad...hes just a sperm donor, you traumatized me when I was a teenager (4 years ago...but ok) ...etc"
If Im so horrible why do you want to live with me, then?
THEN last night at around 1 am, she texted SD15 about her being a backstabber and how shes always been there for her (yeah, like last Christmas when you told her shut the eff up and eff you, and she was texting me that if we let her sister back in she would kill herself...sure yeah) and the worst insult of all, called her a "little Clove"...
I told DH that hes next. And told SD15 to "Stay Strong".
Hold on folks its going to be a bumpy ride.
I told SD15 not to worry - I refuse to sacrifice my happiness for Feral Forger. And SD15 shared with me that her sister likes to say things like "if Clove hadnt cleaned out my room, it would be so easy for me to just moveback in there"...lol. EXACTLY why I cleared that sucker out!!! 7 months of storing her ch!t, was long enough.
The entitlement runs so freaking deep. How dare she even THINK about moving back in after all her lashing out and stealing and disrespect and lies and manipulation. I havent responded to her text but I so want to just lay it out...
So, thank you Steptalkers for helping me stay strong. Every time I waver and think "Im a horrible person for not letting her move back in, maybe we can 'fix her'" I read my blogs, and read the comments and just know that shes not going to change. The way Dh put it - "shes just going to do the same things - sleep, eat and then go out an party, not work not drive, and be mean and rude and dirty...just do them at our house, rather than her mothers apartment"
Yeah, 4 years ago, I recall all the drama, lies, manipulations and disrespect and arguments and dirty grossness. How she would push buttons, call me names and then turn around and tell her mother that I was the one caller HER the exact same names. Her stories were so detailed because she was the one doing the stuff. Being called names and told you are digusting and gross may not seem like a huge deal, but that really does something to you - being treated like dirt in your own home does something to you.
And so, it goes on...send us some good vibes Steptalkers...