And I am embracing it as of now. I got a new job!!!!!

The pool party went as I thought it would - BM being a biotch, and yelling at SO because they sang the birthday song and started on the cake without her present.

WELL, AHEM. She had no treats for the sleepover the night before, and SO and I brought three yes three pizzas, plus the cake, and she couldn't be bothered to be at the pool when everyone wanted to do the song.
Munchkins best friends parents had to leave.

So she chews on SO, and of course apologizes later. Same thing as always.

BM, using her charm on the parents, made my heart drop. Giggling and laughing , then seeing her be a "mean, baby-talking" person to SO, made my heart drop as well. And the boyfriend, Tweedle, hes telling me what a great Mom she is. Yup, being a great mom means slapping and choking your eldest daughter while the youngest watches.

And the youngest thinks her sister deserved it.

oh well, you can lead the horse, right? I sent Tweedle the disengagement manifesto. My good deed for the day, after giving my two weeks.