We received the letter from DYFS stating they are closing the case and that there will be no therapy required from either us or SS16.
SS20 was home when DH opened it. He said to me "well thats good, right'? um no hon, see it stays there for 3 years and my job requires checks every year so they can decide to question me about the record for 3 years.
And no - what makes it ok for a kid to try to ruin his fathers reputation, carreer, life and be labled as a child abuser to get what he wants??
At the same time I just want feel so detached from being part of this family. I refuse to discuss anything to do with SS16. They both will tell me little things going in with him but I just nod and change the subject so it comes down to them going to a seperate room to make plans for SS16 sports, etc. What was once part of my everyday life is just now gone. Yes for my sanity and I cannot forgive someone who can't even apologize but it still hurts to no end.