SD needs to grow up at some point.
:? So for V-Day I get a trip to Miami. I'm completely excited to go, being this is the 1st vacation for just my DH and myself. All other vacations have been to see the SD or to vacation with her somewhere. I don't mind doing that however I feel like I deserve a vacation for just the two of us. She just got back from a 2week vacation less then a month ago and she asked her dad if she can come with us on our trip. He said no and I'm guessing he said this trip was planned for us. We are planning a family Vacation in August to Florida and I told him she is more then Welcome to come then. He later tells me she said no she wasn't interested in going then at all. I assume it's because I have younger children and she is 25. He then tells me that he is planning a vacation for us three in October so she can go I told him that's crazy to spend that much money in one year on vacations heck she might as well go with us. Well guess who is going now. Yes she is coming on my Valentines trip. Not the entire trip but 3 of the 5 days. I find out to that he didn't even talk to her about the family trip his ex wife did. His ex wife would of course persuade her from going because she feels like if my DH can afford to take another trip he should just for her. Oh and the ex wife is jealous that we just had a baby. How would you handle this?