Boyfriend with ex wife
Hi. I have been with my bf for 5 years and on and off since year 3. I knew he was married before when we met but he told me he had been divorced for four years. I found out two years in they never divorced. He was still married. I was beyond hurt and upset. They don't have any kids. I spoke to her once and told her I am ok with them talking here and there because I still talk to my long term ex's. The NEXT day she sent my bf a picture of her breasts in a bra. BTW she has a bf - the same guy she left him for. She would contact him and I saw he never replied. I would get upset why they aren't divorced and he said it was because he was working all the time (which was true) and we needed the money. My bf has repeadely told me how he hates her and so on and so forth. They had a toxic relationship. Well my BF and I split up for a month and I came by to return the keys to our place. I was suprised he was home on a work day. I knocked and he didn't answer so I left the key under the mat and text him I did so. He called me a half hour later and we talked and I moved back in. Fast forward.. Many many months later I found out that she was inside the day I dropped off the key. He admitted to hooking up and insists they didn't go all the way. At the time she wasn't with her boyfriend either. Since he has moved out and I kept the place, I am still very upset this happened. He said he will divorce her but when we were going to go to court two weeks ago he said because of Corona it's not a good time to go. She has text him in the last month asking for his instagram amd they still have communication just through text. He has said he was sorry and has given me his passcode to his phone but I am still so so so mad. We have had five years together and three miscarriages and I feel disrespected. She is now back with the boyfriend she left him for but I still feel this bs will never end. What should I do?