Where is Nana's blanket?
My grandmother passed away over a year ago. Before she was in the nursing home she lived with Aunt K. She still had a lot of stuff at Aunt Ks house when last Feb Aunt K also passed away and 3 weeks later my uncle passed away which left a house full of stuff that my cousins needed to get rid of but losing both parents within 3 weeks was tough and throwing stuff away was hard so a lot of family came over and took things they could use.
I took my grandmother's quilt but it didnt fit my bed or match my room so I use it on the couch when DH & I cuddle & watch tv. Now the blanky is missing. Why? Why does so much DISAPPEAR in this house. I also took a pasta strainer from Aunt Ks kitchen. I said to DH...oh look we have a strainer just like this lets take this one too. Now one of them is missing. Why? Silverware & dishes disappear. I started buying extras at Goodwill because our ENTIRE set of silverware is gone but maybe 3 pieces and lots & lots of bowls are gone. Why? Money has also disappeared but thats another story lol.
I also took one of my grandmother's rosaries and it is by my bedside and if that disappears I will lose my shit!
Is this normal for things to disappear in a home for no reason? Or is this a skid thing? Like they are so entitled they take things & don't put them back because well they're skids, they don't have to. I've only lived here since summer and soooo many things are gone. I mean no one is stealing my spoons, dishes, blankets, strainer and other weird things but they're not here. I hide things at my mom's that I don't want to disappear but i can't do that forever! Help