Living a seperate life from dh & skids
Ive been gone for 2 days. I spent the night at my parents because I went in to the city to go to a White Sox game with out of town family. It would have been only an extra 20 mins to drive home but I used it as an excuse to be gone and stayed away til almost bedtime tonight to avoid the people i live with.
I went to the game without DH because I didnt want the skids there. Im trying to avoid bringing the skids around my family...long story why but besides they are embarrassing and obnoxious I have other reasons too. DH can never do anything with out the skids during the week which is understandable cuz school and lack of a sitter. DH & I went to a Blackhawks game a few years ago and ss12 slapped him in the face and told him he hates him and instead of beating his fucking ass DH apologized for only having 2 tix. Someone gave us expensive tickets and if he had 4 you know damn right the snotty kids would be sitting their asses in $300 seats only worried about what they were going get next, food, souveneirs, 10 trips to the bathroom.
After being gone for 2 full days it takes 10 seconds to be annoyed by ss12. I cant stand the sound of his voice. Every. Word. He. Says. Has. An. Attitude. Attached. I guess if it was my kid Id feel different. I. Just. Dont. Like. Him. I mean every word he says shows his know ot all attitude. So. Not. Cute.
Ugh. If only everyone's kids were as precious as my bios lol
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Can't help, I do the same
Can't help, I do the same thing. Every time the kid has a soccer game, I make plans. I do not go to movies with them, and I usually leave the house on the weekends. On the good side, I do make a lot of extra money staying late at work.
I HATE bringing SD to family
I HATE bringing SD to family things and avoid it at all costs.
Also I feel the exact same about hearing her voice. And seeing her face. I just cant stand her at all anymore really.
Same
SD has not even pretended to be nice to me (unless I was spending money on her) in more than 1 year now.
All preteens/teens
are annoying. Your own and other people’s.
I disagree. I've met some
I disagree. I've met some teens that I'm super impressed by their maturity and have very likeable personalities. Granted, I don't live with them. But there is definitely a big variation in personalities that makes some kids a lot more likeable and less annoying than others.
I agree. Well-parented teens
I agree. Well-parented teens can be very likeable and mature.
So much disrespect there op.
My father also does not want to be around skids. Every year my husband bought a ticket for my dad to spend with us in our country overseas so he could spend tiem with our 2 kids (his grandkids), my dad said he doesn’t feel welcome at home because ss21 gives off a vibe he wants no one here at home
its hubbies home, not ss and since i am the one caring for maintaining it 95% of the time, what ss wants or doesn’t want in the home means jackshit to me.
i told my dad how you feel is how he treats hubbis family when they visit. He kills the mood and is rude and laughs about. He’s an embarassment.
My dad recently said when the skids get married, he’d buy me and our 2 kids a ticket to spend time with dad, my dad knows I don’t want to be around skids. So much and disrespect from them and many times i resent hubby because of it...
even got to a point where it feels we are the expendable option for poor feelings of grown up skids...
Oh how I wish I had my
Oh how I wish I had my parents house or any family house to go to when I don't want to go home. I have no family around and I don't even have a friend..not one single friend besides my co-workers......I lost them all in my divorce a few years ago...a good 15 or 20 of them. I have nowhere to go....I've often sat in the walmart parking lot just to avoid going home.......I can't do that as much now b/c I have a toddler
When skids are there....as I get closer to my street, my chest tightens and a dark cloud appears over the house and I mouth under my breath as I pull in the driveway "I hate this fu**ing house, I hate my life" and then I take a deep breath....put on my best happy face and go inside...and literally count down the hours unitl 8 PM when I can safely say I am going to bed.....
I sat in a parking lot for
I sat in a parking lot for iber an hour a couple nights ago. I cant continue to invite myself to my parents house lol. Although i just show up looking for food like a kid home from college. They are on my way home from work and i go to a gym near their home. I still use the library in their town. Any excuse to stop by and waste time there. Sometimes I take a nap and a shower. They have 3 empty bedrooms