How am I the bad guy?
I came home from work after midnight, changed my clothes, brushed teeth etc. DH was sleeping. When I grabbed the blankets, I woke him. We exchanged pleasantries and then I asked him why there were soaking wet towels on the carpet in the hall. I picked them up of course. Apparently he left them in the washer and when SD17 needed to do laundry she tossed them in the hall outside the laundry room. Really? So I said I was going to piss on her laundry. Kinda crude but I wouldnt do it. Regardless, somehow Im the bad guy who "woke him in the middle of the night to scream at him". I didnt scream but I was pissed. In what universe am I wrong? Im not looking for sympathy from anyone. I know as well as the other regulars here know I should be out of here. I like my life and I like my house. I just dont like my husband or his kids. There are things Id have to give up to leave him that Im not sure Im ready to give up. I know once I leave and get over this I will wonder why I waited so long.