SS is claiming abuse
So SS15 came home almost 2 hours after curfew last night, so his dad took away his video games. This morning SS came into our room to take socks when he's not supposed to be in our room at all!! So I spoke up for myself finally and called him out on it. I asked him what he's coming into the room for and he said he's taking socks so I told him NO you aren't allowed to anymore because we don't have any left after you've taken them all. Then his dad comes into the room and let's him HAVE IT!! told him to stay the heck out of our room and to respect our house. It's about time!!! He needs to be yelled at!!
so SS15 decided to sneak out of the house this morning while his dad was in the shower. He didn't tell me or his dad where he was going. his dad tries calling him and he's been sending his dad to voicemail. Then SS finally sends him a text saying "I can't take the mental abuse anymore." He's basically blaming his dad for him leaving even though he was already fully dressed and ready to go before his dad said a word to him. This was planned. We don't know where he his and I told his dad he needs to shut off SS phone. His deadbeat mother won't answer her phone and she's probably hiding him at her house.
just to let you know fiancé is TOO easy on his son. For example, just last week, SS was told to clean his room for 3 days straight and he never did it!!! He refuses to listen to his dad when his dad asks him nicely. Then SS had the nerve to smoke weed in his room the next day and that caused fiancé to go off and took away the video games. ( We have a newborn in the house so this was a NO NO. ) but fiancé gave the video games back the next day which pissed me off. He needs to put his foot down with his son and be consistent. The fact that this kid is claiming his dad is mentally abusing him because this kid doesn't want to do what he's told is BULLSHIT. fiancé is super hurt and pissed off and now he's saying he wants SS to go live with his mother. That's fine with me!!!