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BM's newest story on the ringworm ...

ChiefGrownup's picture

...is "you don't want to help or do your part in healing this child." Honestly, how can she ever look in a mirror.

In the same breath she tells DH what is she supposed to do if the tube of ointment runs out? She asks all these vague stupid questions till I had to explode. Not at her. Venting to dh. The upside of that is he quietly took all my ideas and executed them without ever feeling he asked for advice or I just gave it. Plus we got to vent together. BM is the enemy, not each other. As it should be.

One of her stupid ass vague questions was "uh, now, uh, what about the insurance card?" DH actually almost fell for that but I just said "Exactly what does this woman do when she takes them to Urgent Care every other week because one of'em looked like they were thinking about sneezing?"

So DH chirpily called the pharmacy this morning. Asked them for two tubes of ointment as a refill so we could give one tube to the school. The cheerfully complied. Dh and Sd just left together to go get them cuz they're ready.

Really, he deserves a Nobel Prize for executing that extremely complicated and pioneering piece of medical engineering.

On the phone she was telling him crap like she can't go pick up anything from the pharmacy (because she's so burdened with her OWN child--just one of them because we had the other). Guess she thought a phalanx of fairies guarded him and the boy when they went together to the doctor TWICE to get the ringworm diagnosed and treated because she couldn't be bothered. Furthermore, Dh is going to hand deliver to her the medicine that they pick up this afternoon so she doesn't have to leave her throne. He will now have paid for 4 fing tubes of this stuff.

Just popped in to give you all the update. Discovered this ringworm on Jan 25. Doc said it would take 14 days to cure. We are now on Feb 22. She's such a wretch. It's just unbelievable that after a month of actively neglecting (yeah, that's a neat trick) this child, suddenly her story is DH "won't do his part." GRR^!(*&)$*&!!!

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ChiefGrownup's picture

Yes, yes, yes, she did. And your outrage is very satisfying. Ahhh, sane people! Like slipping into a Calgon bath....

thinkthrice's picture

BINGO! This whole thing is just another way to say your DH is a "deadbeat" "sperm donor" etc. while meanwhile, she can look like a victim because of her pooooor poooooor son having all of these maladies. It fits the narrative.

ChiefGrownup's picture

BTW, for those who haven't read previous blogs, this is our first weekend leaving SS13 (autistic) at bm's because DH is trying to force her to apply the bloomin' medicine on her days. The school nurse should start putting it on at least once a day tomorrow so at least he gets one application per day now.

thinkthrice's picture

How naive it is for these men to think that the golden uterus will miraculously turn into MOTY when in fact, they get their jollies off of their children being "special cases" and "victims?"

thinkthrice's picture

She sounds like she has the "Munchausens by Proxy." Dominatrix (SD16) had a raging case of ringworm back when she was 8/9. In fact I spotted it first and made the accurate diagnosis. Of course, Chef wouldn't believe me. The only time he listens to me is WAAAY after the fact and having been confirmed by 3 or 4 "experts."

Well at this time, Dom was still on Chef's insurance so the Girhippo (BM) had NO problem running them to the doctor for every.little.thing but RARELY following through on any of the treatment. Why have them cured when you can tell a tale of woe about how ILL your children are and have everyone feel SORRY for you ?

The Girhippo took Dom to the doctors and sure enough I was right. It took WEEKS for it to go away because the Girhippo "didn't have the time" to follow through with the medications having used the "title" of custodial parent as merely a golden ticket for CS.

ChiefGrownup's picture

OMG what happened to your sd at 8/9 is exactly what is happening to ss13. I'm the one who first rang the alarm bell on it and now bm doesn't have "the time" to put the medicine on.

Who could think there were multiples of these mothers out there? It's shocking and mind boggling.

Interesting theory about the wanting people to feel sorry for her. It is certainly damn true about the autism itself. I think she's keeping the ringworm on the down low, though. She did not want dh to tell the school (he did anyway).

And the CS as a lifeplan rather than temporary augment to kids, yup. I've asked dh more than once what is she gonna do when the cs stops? She gets foreclosed on even with full cs and extremely generous divorce settlement. Guess it will be time to live off dear old doddering dad when my husband's sentence, er, child support runs out.