Furious for even asking me
I am beyond words and furious. DH is currently now on the process of being ordered child support from BM. Before this he was giving her money but all of a sudden now that we got married and had a baby she filed. Anyways, currently DH is having medical issues and is currently waiting for SSD meaning his work is limited. The amount to be paid is yet to be determined. I never was against him giving her part of his money. But now that he can't work as much he afraid of not being able to pay and end up in jail. So in evening we were talking and out of nowhere he stated that if its a high amount, I should pay it for him. I laughed! It became a whole ordeal that i was basically mean for not paying his child support when our son needs stuff too and while I'm trying to pay rent , bills etc. I refuse to give BM my money. I even told DH Id help him go to court to ask for modification if the amount was too high. At the end he said he wanted a divorce. Is there a side I'm not seeing here?