I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and he has two kids. His ex wife and him had a nasty divorce and plus the aunt is involved too. I have try helping, hell there was days the kids did eat if I didn't buy them food. I have been accused of beating the kids but now they're spending the night at my house because their dad and I live together. I have certain rules and stuff I want done because of the way I was raised and he wants to be the fun dad. We get them every other Sunday and we started getting them one weekend out of the month.