For those of you who remember, my DH has laid off (unemployed) for 15 months and counting. We had a lot of savings which he has been using to pay child support. Technically it is all his money; he had it way before I came into the picture. I am supporting us and all skids and him are on my insurance (and I pay for all medical care and other odds and ends). I make good money so this is stressful but not the end of the world.

See my previous blogs, been stressed, have more testing Tuesday to see if I have breast cancer at 29. DH just had these delivered to my office. The card says :

"You are the love of my life. You're everything to me - and I will always be there for you in sickness and health. All my love, DH"

https://imgur.com/BZKrkIk

I just turned 29. I've almost been married a year and I have 4 skids (SD16, SD13, SS6, and SS5) who I have a great relationship with. My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer at 38 (very young) and she and BOTH of my grandmothers are survivors. I had the genetic test done at 25 and I am BRCA positive, meaning I have an 87% chance of breast cancer and a 63% chance of Ovarian cancer. Yayyyy...... Because of this, I am checked twice a year; MRI in the summer and Tomo-Mammogram in the winter. This is easy-peasy and I always get the all clear.

Just wanted to give everyone an update. If you recall, DH pays $2500 to BM1 and $2900 to BM2, and he has been laid off for over a year. Our savings has dwindled to the point of near extinction. All the skids are on my insurance and I pay for medical care (which is expensive - SD16 is a Type 1 Diabetic).