So, yesterday SD had an event at school involving a presentation of a project. The event started at 4pm.
Thursdays SD goes with BM after school. Well DH asked BM if she needed him to pick SD up after school at 3:15 so that she could be at the event on time. And BM refused and said the teacher had already offered to keep her but that we needed to pack extra snacks. I know it's just 45 minutes but we live literally 4 houses down from the school. SD could have had a nice little break at home and spent some extra time with DH and ate her snacks at home.
So fine. We went with that. DH and I arrive to the school around 3:50 and go to the event with SD and her classmates. It's about to be 5pm and BM hasn't showed up. SD is restless and hungry. Teacher says everyone's wrapping things up and that we can go (but we can't because it's BM'S day and we're not about to leave SD in the care of the teacher again)
So DH messages BM to ask about when she was planning on arriving, let her know SD was hungry. DH tells her we can take SD to dinner and then drop SD off at her home (shes like a 1 mile away from us). BM flat out refuses and says "we will feed her after" and then still doesn't arrive until 5:15.
It's just frustrating and maybe I'm nitpicking and being petty. Just need to vent my frustrations.