I have been with my bf for 3 years and things just keep getting worse. He has 12 year old daughter and 8 year old son. They are spoiled and do no wrong.
I work 2 jobs to support all of us. So my day off we all clean house well now the kids are telling their mom they are my slaves. They come only weekends and summer. We spend maybe 45 mins total. Now the mother is threatening to not let them come. I feel I didn't make the mess but I help clean it. Idk what to do? My children 9,20 &21 never3r complained about house work.
They have to be reminded every time they come of the rules. The 8 year old cant tie his shoes, and when he uses the bathroom its a disaster. They both ignore anything I say. Idk if they are just trying to get attention or what but I'm on the verge of breaking up.
Since the beginning the kids hang all over their dad. It get sickning cuz the daughter will actually pull his shirt up and rub his belly why ppl are over. She acts as if she is his wife. Ive looked it up and its considered emotional incest. They both try to block me from even sitting next to him. They pout if he's not around. Normal kids go out and play not these kids. Im so frustrated. I pay for everything like their glasses,clothes and field trips. I am done doing this for them due to the disrespect they have towards me. Please help!!??