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Took SS on a date the other night. He says "WHY ME??..."

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There are a lot of times that it is only SS and I home. My DD's go to their dad's 50% of the time, and DH still travels a lot for work. So this week, Wednesday and Thursday, it was just SS and I. We were bored, so I took him to his favorite place for dinner. We usually only go there on this bday but hey... I felt like spoiling him Wink

BM Blew UP SS's phone this weekend

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DH and I went to Vegas Friday- Sunday. SS stayed with his grandparents (BM's dad and stepmom). She has been texting SS like crazy lately, he responds to her once every 10 or so texts. And it's always just a one work answer. So it started heavy on Friday.
- HEY SS
- HEY SS
- HI SS, what are you up to
- SS, what are you up to?
GRANDPA'S
- OH, that's cool
- Are you there all weekend
- SS, are you spending the whole weekend there
- SS... will you be at grandpa's all weekend
YEAH

BM looking for a new place to live...

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According to her FB post this morning. I wonder if her room mate is kicking her out. She has been quiet on BM's page lately, where she used to comment on everything. BM has been texting SS lately, but he rarely responds. She asked to see him over a month ago, he said "sure" but then never told us that he wanted to see her (which he does tell us when he ACTUALLY wants to see her, other wise his "sure" is to appease her) but she never followed up on it, so it's never happened anyway.

Anyone wanna try to figure out just what in the actual F*CK this is that BM posted on FB today...

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I just don't even know anymore, BM is so far gone off the deep end. This post actually frightens me. Can anyone tell me if there is significance to the weird foil cape, and the red lightening bolts?

http://imgur.com/a/KYxdj

Well... BM showed up to Graduation... and some pics for your viewing pleasure ;)

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DH is out of town for work, so he missed all the celebrations. Sad

I don't know how she got there, and I really don't care. She showed up alone after swindling tickets out of the principal earlier this week (long story, the principal called me before he gave them to her). She requested 2 tickets. I was concerned that she would bring Meth Man. She wanted to, according to her mom. But in the end, didn't.

$4 a month. She couldn't do $4 a MONTH for her child.

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It's official, I HATE BM.

We've never asked her to pay for ANYTHING for SS. Even when she was "simi normal" and had some custody of him, we always paid for everything. NO questions asked. EXCEPT for his health care. She had gotten him on state insurance when he was born, it was Kaiser and we really like his Dr, and... it was $8 per month. A few years ago it dropped to $4 a month. Even through all of her craziness, she had kept up on his insurance...

Mother's Day

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So Gpa and SGMa picked SS up at 8:15. Apparently BM got a ride in to town (don't know or care who from) and met them for breakfast. Other than dropping SS off about 30 minutes late, everything went off without a hitch. It was quick and SS was back home in no time.

You know what pisses me off...

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I can't count on ONE SINGLE FINGER how many times BM has text or called and just asked how SS is doing. Nothing about his grades, his health, his emotional well being. NOTHING. Not since the day she dropped him off and sat in our living room while I told SS that his mom needed some time to get her life together and get back on track so he's going to stay with US full time until she does that. That was a year and 6 months ago.

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