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Booboobear's picture

SS's wife (DIL) texted me that she wanted everyones birthdays, so I texted screenshots of all 12 months of my calender where b-days and anniv were written in black sharpie. She said thank you Smile and then asked where (one SGdaughters bday was). I looked over all my old calendars and could not find.  I asked her to tell me it when she found it. she later texted me and told me the b-day.  then I asked her what SD29's 2 youngers kids names and b-days (i already have 2 of SD29's bdays written) then she ignored me and then texted it wasnt her place to tell me. 

Im an idiot for thinking the road goes both ways


Thumper's picture

Oh my must be kidding me.  That was very mean of her. I am so sorry.

Whelp, that would be the last time I helped her out.

So sorry.



justmakingthebest's picture

Oh good lord. 

Talk about someone just trying to start some family drama. 

Livingoutloud's picture

She is a meanie (not her place to tell you? It's not classified info) but on a different note how is your DH not know his grandkids names and birthdays? I could see maybe forgetting birthdays if he is older (I had to write everyone's birthdays for my dad as he can't remember) but names? If he estranged from them, then I understand 

DPW's picture

Wow, that's extreme. I have an aunt, who is like my second mom, who does similar and has other qualities that I cannot tolerate (very judgmental and critical of everything I do, etc.). I got so tired of it that I have put a lot of distance between us, even with the fact that she was diagnosed with terminal cancer about three years ago and was given six months to live. I love her, but I have a hard time keeping my self-esteem up when I'm around her and often want to simply walk away permanently when she gets judgy or critical of something I've done or am thinking or feeling. I feel like now that I'm older, I just do not have the patience to deal with people who bring negativity to my life.