For 7 years I helped raise this child. Every other week. Custody changed and she moved away with her mom and we rarely see her now (She's 12) shes constantly in trouble at school, got arrested once for cyber bullying. Called cps on us twice (both cases unfounded) She makes excuses not to come to our house and tbh my husband (herBD) doesn't even care anymore. It's like we don't even know her anymore. Her life is with her Mom and their family, and we feel disgaurded (like she threw us away) she's a angry child. We picked her up Wednesday, had Thanksgiving, with family, and then she wanted to go shopping so we went. After that she said she was sick and wanted to go home. So she called her Mom and she came and got her. Everything has changed now. Her Dad doesn't even care to pick her up anymore. (Go back and read my blog for the whole story) she left today and I was relieved. I was glad she left. This is a little girl I spent every other week with for 7 years l. I feel bad but it's like the bond has broken and she's not comfortable here and neither are we. Is this a normal feeling or are we just awful ppl.