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last night with SO

bluehighlighter's picture

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Last night I got my haircut then made it over by 7 our "ss8 goes to bed early night" and guess what?! SS8 was forced to be in his room or away from everyone at 7 pm actually instead of the two of them nonstop talking messing around wasting time. yay for now

I didn't have to see him or hear him too much even though he used the bathroom like 4 times in a row with a million flushes... letting me know he's there I guess.

I watched tv with my SO he got me some icecream and held me all night until we went to sleep.

In the morning I heard when the door opened:
ss "Dad"
SO "yes?"
SS "dad"
SO "what?"
SS "dad"
SO "WHAT WHAT do you want?"
SS "dad..........Dad i ate my breakfast"

SHUT UP ugh I hate when he does this crap he actually says "all done" when he finishes eating he's eight years old and if you don't acknowledge that he said it he'll say it over and over "All done"

my niece did that when she first learned to talk...

I might just stay at my own place tonight so I don't have to see the lil fucker.
His grandparents said he's been trying to boss them around at their house recently which he usually doesn't do.

Now atleast I can leave and be like "i can't take this today . see ya"
maybe still having my place is good I slept just fine the other night and even got to work super early.

I don't know that I can listen to their shit today without drinking.

happy friday just venting

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bluehighlighter's picture

yea you have a good point. He's supposed to go with his grandma to visit her for a few days in another week. Then she's disappearing and we don't know for how long. Her new husband is a weed harvester in Cali (we live on the far east coastal state)

I don't know that anyone has told the child, not like he'd know the difference with her.

I'm supposed to go with them to one of his next Child psychologist appointments with SO.

I don't hate the kid I just hate that his dad allows him to act like a baby, for a while he was being a big kid.

He's getting WAYYYYY too much attention is part of the problem, that can be unsettling I think too. He does better with alot of structure and rules. I think he feels safer with lots of rules, he tests it but he seems calmer.

bluehighlighter's picture

He's not allowed to come into our room or SO's room. He's 8 but he waits outside the bedroom door, also where the kitchen is, right outside our bedroom.

HE HAS HIM ALLLLLLLL THE TIME. Sad Grandma is taking him at some point next week for about a week of his track out time. Which will be awesome. She's brought him back with headaches herself and then she hugs me and says "oh girl..." and I say "I know"

I might just have to go over there after he's in bed or refuse to spend time with SO until he shuts his baby behaviors up.
The problem is I know it will get worse when I'm not there. The kid will try and rule his dad again. SO is exhausted by the kid and eventually flips out on him but the kid when I'm around him, i expect him to act his age and to some degree he does. IF i point out things to him.

He's annoying as hell. I thought it might be better but I dread having to see him today. I feel like all the work I did was for nothing if they just slip back into their stupid infant routine.

SO gave me the Ok to tell the kid when he's being annoying and to tell him to stop. I do it tactfully and in a kid friendly manner but jeez if it was my child I wouldn't even be as tactful.

He has tried to replace his mom with me for a while and used to say "mama" under his breath when he'd hug me. but no bio child of mine is going to be allowed to act like an infant at 8 years old.

I don't want the kid to think I hate him but if he does that shit tonight I'm gonna have to say " you need to stop please, you're not two years old, we don't need to know when you're done eating. and it's rude to announce it loudly over other peoples converstations. if you insist on acting as if you are 2 years old you can go to bed when two year olds go to bed" (that's what i feel like saying that and NO BODY GIVES A SHIT DUDE SHUT UP)

Sad Ugh

bluehighlighter's picture

yea BM isn't even around she doesn't know how to function herself as an adult. SO however does or used to award him for every damn thing. The other problem is that we are all short people both I and SO are under 5'2'' the child LOOKS much younger than he is b/c he's so short but one look at his mischievous face and you know that he's way smarter.

Strangers compliment him b/c they don't realize he's 8 years old. Yea that would be great if he was 4 and new how to say certain words but he's 8!!!!!!

Hanny's picture

I think if you are this disgusted with skid, you should get out of this relationship and do everyone a favor!

bluehighlighter's picture

I think i'm just overly irritable today
i've been taking some medication that makes me not want to eat even when i'm hungry then work is piling up and everything under the sun is aggravating me

i need a nap and a vacation