Struggling with 6yr old twin stepdaughter
1st time poster.
Quick run down. I have 6 Bio. Ages 27 down to 3.
Partner has 4 children 12, 9, and twin 6 yrs.
I get on fabulous with the boys 12 and 9. Have small moments with 1 twin but generally ok. The other twin. Not at all.
I have 2 rules. We don't yell in our house and we share. She can't do either. I've tried rewarding not yelling and in yelling I mean blood curdkung screaming at siblings and parents. She's constantly telling me how much she hates me and my 3yr old bio.
When she comes we have to take my bio into our room for the duration to stop her hitting and yelling at her.
We can't take her anywhere as she completely loss her cheap in full tantrum which humiliates my DH and ruins it for the other children. Please help.
Oh we have her not beer often only holidays but it s devastating this is how our family holidays are spent.
BM didn't help the situation she had blames DH for leaving her years ago. She's been in another relatioship 3 yrs. We are 10 months in. If there's any diagnosis needed it won't happen. BM can not communicate. All has been legal contact.
Yesterday the 2 boys were so upset because we had to leave another outing. They we devasted.