Blended fam of 10's Blog
So we've been trying this blended fam thing and it's not working. His 6 year old twin girls physically and verbally attack my 3 yr old and have at times attacked DH and myself.
He now has even more custody. Every school holidays. His place is only 3 bedroom and during the holidays we have 8 kids. We have 2 with us permanently. Both mine 16 girl and 3 yr girl. Never any dramas.
When my bio kids come when his kids aren't here we have no drama.
1st time poster.
Quick run down. I have 6 Bio. Ages 27 down to 3.
Partner has 4 children 12, 9, and twin 6 yrs.
I get on fabulous with the boys 12 and 9. Have small moments with 1 twin but generally ok. The other twin. Not at all.
I have 2 rules. We don't yell in our house and we share. She can't do either. I've tried rewarding not yelling and in yelling I mean blood curdkung screaming at siblings and parents. She's constantly telling me how much she hates me and my 3yr old bio.