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The positive... And why I know I will never have a real relationship with SD or SGD

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Submitted by Biomomof2 on Thu, 09/25/2014 - 3:06pm

Last Friday DH and I were on the edge if we did not call our truce (previous blog) we would not be together. Neither one of liked what we saw coming and we stepped back. Made an agreement, and are spending 30 days working on building a loving marriage. We will talk about issues only as they come up, and only with our counselor. At home everything has been like the beginning of our relationship and I find I actually like him again, and all the little things I fell I love with him over, that had turned into the very reasons he drove me insane, are back to being so darn cute.

My DD11... Any ideas out there???

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Submitted by Biomomof2 on Thu, 09/25/2014 - 11:00am

Soooo my DD is 11. Started developing at 8,9. Started her spotting 7 months ago. Full blown period started 3 months ago. She is a great kid. Even when DH and I fight about kids, she is Switzerland. We fight about his, and BS but never DD. She is very sweet, loving, listens well. The type of kid where she might not be happy doing something but wouldn't dream of back talking or not doing it. I have raised her that she doesn't have to be happy about it, she just can't be disrespectful or not do it.

We called a truce

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Submitted by Biomomof2 on Mon, 09/22/2014 - 1:13am

After months of our marriage getting worse and us getting to the point where everything annoys us, we have called a truce. We really do love each other, and are going to work to save our marriage. 4 seasons with our counselor and we know he is not the right fit. So looking for a new one. Agreement to only deal with the now, solve only problems as they come up. And work on doing things for each other, working on the positve. More time together, more fun, and more us time.

Double Standard

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Submitted by Biomomof2 on Thu, 09/18/2014 - 10:54am

So apparently the way our household and marriage is going to run is this... Anything I do, any rule for my kids will be agreed apon between DH and I. We are a united team and I will back up anything he says with my bios. BUT when it comes to DH spending money, doin what he wants, rules for SGD and how things are going with faux SD and faux SGD DH can decide all on his own. He and I quote "will not be calling me to see what he can and can't do". He will do whatever he wants.

I don't know if I can handle this

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Submitted by Biomomof2 on Thu, 09/18/2014 - 1:16am

DH has been raising and has gardenship of SD11. She is actually is step-daughter from his first marriages daughter. The only connection to him... His actually DD25 is her half Aunt. He also had gardenship of his ex-SD28.
Lots of reasons SD28 gave DH gardenship. But she has wanted her DD back for 2 years. Only didn't take DH to court because she knew it would cost her the only dad she has ever had. DH guilt parented SGD11. Not only that but really has the knight in shining armor thing going on with her. Hero to the rescue.

Once again

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Submitted by Biomomof2 on Mon, 09/08/2014 - 6:42pm

Like normal in this house, I take a nap and either DH or SD or both wake me up. My kids on the other hand had been quite and respectful.
Never do I get to take a good nap unless SD is gone or DH is asleep longer then me. Even if he is napping with me and he wakes up first he wakes me up.
I'm seriously OVER these two and the lack of giving a shit about anyone else.
Outside on the phone early, SD comes out to ask to move the ottoman. DH doesn't quite her down or anything. Finally I speak up, I'm on the phone and this is NOT important.
BULLSHIT

My bios

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Submitted by Biomomof2 on Sat, 09/06/2014 - 12:53am

First weekend at BF in 2 months. I had an ex parte and no visitation was order. Dad is not monitoring or give OCD BS his meds.
Judge had this go on for 2 months and at the 3rd court date dismissed my request stating he doesn't give a damn whether my son takes his meds. OK
I hired an attorney last week. BS meds were only one reason for ex parte and request for modification.

sole legal custody

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Submitted by Biomomof2 on Fri, 12/20/2013 - 1:13pm

This blog will not be up long but I have a question for you all as a BM.
Kids hAve strep. They are on medicine and will be leaving for their dad's for a week. They may have mono but doc is treating the strep first and if they aren't doing better by the 30th they will the blood test for mono.
I have sole legal custody. I emailed dad and explained all this. His response was if need be he will take them to the base doc. My response was
Their doctor is not on base please email me if they end up needing to go to the doctor. Thanks

My fur baby is better!!!

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Submitted by Biomomof2 on Sat, 09/07/2013 - 12:28pm

Longest week of my life thing my German shepherd slipped her hip and when I went to the vet Friday I would be talking about hip dysphasia and how long she had.
Nope. She has X-rays scheduled for Wednesday to confirm. Is on pains meds which brought her back to the happy girl I know. Vet is 95% positive it is panosteitis. Which is very painful growing pains in large dogs. Can last until they are 2 1/2 but nothing serious. It shows on X-rays which is why the X-rays.
So happy!!!!

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