Went to fill BSs OCD meds this morning. No insurance. I pay out of pocket. Of course, I'm a little biase because I'm talking about myself here but I have been pretty laid back. Only every had BF cover his cost once. BS had to get an expander to prepare for braces. I have since added kids to my dental as well so out of pocket costs have all but disappeared. Was told by court and CS that I can actually Bill BF for the insurance I provide to keep costs down. I have never done that. Nor have I ever followed the court order and put together 3 months of costs and billed him.

When I met DH he was going through court for gardenship of FauxSGD. Then he started talking to her about adopting her. He was telling me he told SD if she dropped FauxSGD off with him, it will be permeant.
About 5 months ago he had fauxSGD start staying the weekends with her mom and then sent her back to live about 2 months after weekends started.

I'm sooo sick of EVERYTHING being an issues.
DH ... Did you take a shower?
Me... No
DH... Oh, who did?
Me... BS
DH... Why did he have the bath running?
Me... I was in the front room the whole time (7ft away) I never heard it
DH ...well, I heard it clear as day, ask him why he had it running
Me... DH, I never heard it.
DH... Why do you have to challenge me on everything?
Me.. You really need to stop being so dramatic. It's not a personal challenge to you
DH... Ok, Ok, fuck

FauxSD and I ised to get along really well. At times I miss her, a lot. But when she pulled me into her drama that ended with her driving drunk with baby GD, I relized that I could not have her in my life. To much and that was the final straw. She is bi-polar. I get her as she reminds me so much of my mom, and faux SD and I had very similar childhoods. I have a connection with her, I just couldn't watch all the crap and I can't let my kids be apart of it.