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The cat

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I wrote a blog a couple of weeks ago about BF letting DD bring her cat from over there home. I never understood getting an animal for someone who doesn'tive there.
Anyways cat is here. And wow. The cat spent all of yesterday hiding in the crate. When we went to show her the litter box, she crawled in and started growling. Full on attacked me hand when I tried to get her out of the litter box. I know how BF is with animals. I've seen it myself. DD has told me some of the things she has seen with this cat. But not everything. It will take time. This poor animal.

Annoyed

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I blogged about a week ago about some of my annoyance with BF. LMAO, all that and he never called the Dentist or the Orthodontist.
In 6 yrs BF has paid ONE medical Bill and ONE full month of CS. To cover his lame insurance I got my bioS on my insurance as well. Which is great. My dental pays 70% of DDs braces. So with the 35% BFs pays there is no out of pocket cost.
But BF is $12,000 in arrears. His taxes are taken every year and he still owes that much!!!

BF and pets orrrrr stupid shit BF does to the kids

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So, I have sole legal primary physical and BF gets 6 days a month, only 1 7 day vacation a summer. About 2 yrs ago, DD came to me and told me BF promised her a brand new bedroom set, room decorated just how she wanted it IF she moved in. Said it was really hard to not want that. I followed her therapist advice as BF had been trying really hard to buy both kids. I told her, well damn!!!

Just irritated

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I got an email from BF. I know it is pety that I'm annoyed. But I AM!!!
Email is ( summarized not word for word)
BM, I got a bill from dental insurance, they paid all but xyz. I'll call and pay my half in the next couple of days, the rest is up to you.
Also I found a power floss on TV for DD I bought one and got one for free so I'm sending home with them.

Update to BF vacation issues

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Amazing. BF must have talked to someone and realized I was legally correct. So he moved his vacation to end at 6pm Sunday before school starts. Said it was due to scheduling conflict with work (he is part time at a small local airport for crop dusters). Ok if you can't admit you threw a temper tantrum only to find out your wrong.

BF and his planning his vacation just to cause problems

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So I get an email from BF. My vacation with kids will be abc-xyz. I email him back and let him know, it would be fine except the kids start school in the middle of those dates, so that doesn't work.
He responded back with well, I wasn't asking for your opinion I was telling you my vacation days, I don't give a damn what you think.
I contact my attorney and the family law clerks office to verify and respond with,

Therapist advice

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Since I left my bios father, he has tried to PAS them. Doesn't really work as he has no legal custody, no summer schedule, no interest in them. Doesn't even contact the schools even though I have provided both bios schools with notorized letters that all information regarding the children may be released to dad, he just can not make decisions regarding them.

Wonder when I will be blamed for the fall of the USSR everything else is my fault

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I have posted and explained the HELL I went threw with DH and his fauxSGD. She has RADs. She has attacked me more times then I can count, gone after my pets and my bios. Threatened, hit, kicked, punched threw everything, slammed doors into me. It was so bad at one point I couldn't wear shorts or a 2 piece bathing suit because of the bruises. It caused fights behind DH and I but I made it very clear she is not allowed to touch my pets or even be in the same room as bios.

Double standards or I don't know WTF this is about HELP... This is LONG

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Hello. I've posted on here a couple of times. DH and I are still together but he has to attented counseling which he has been, and we must start marriage counseling. I have changed a couple of other things as well, he isn't alone with bios and I have stood up for both more and more.
This is the issue today.

I'm angry and hurt.

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I know I'm going to be a blog hog for awhile. Sorry. Just my way of letting it all go.
I'm angry that H didn't have my back. Went to court for SD "because he had too" (poor him) but 10001 excuses why he couldn't show up for me
Helps everyone else to include ex-wife #2 and I can get my H to feed "my" dogs
I've been the only one here while he has been on disability. I do everything. And it is not appreciated. Now, somehow he is a doormat. Please

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