Dtzyblnd ..please help
So here is how this went down... You seems to know more about it then me
BF, his ODD and her BM are in court. Judge is working out how much BF needs to pay for ODD while she is in college. BF makes the comment she can just use my GI BILL instead. So court order reflexes... BF agrees to sign GI BILL over in lue of direct payments to EXSD. Sooooo, now he never did. She has gotten him on contempt of court 3 months ago, they are trying to calculate how much $$$ he owes instead. Just got off the phone with her, the military is not being compliant and is dragging out releasing his GI BILL benefits guidelines so they can have documentation of what she would have gotten per month to tally what BF actually owes.
Judge stated yesterday that BF is actually going to owe more then would have ever been CO because he opened his mouth about the GI BILL. Looks like the GI BILL would have payed out something like $1200 a month to her. They are having to use online calculators at this point as BF is not being forth coming and military is being difficult.
Sooooo this is how he got CO to sign his GI BILL over to her. And why he is now on the hook. Judge stated that he believes BF brought up the GI BILL with no intentions to sign it over and no intentions of paying. So, judge is going to having BF pay the full amount the GI Bill would have covered rather then just a calculated cost. While he may not be able to be forced to sign it over, he offered and made it part of the court order.
Sooooo what are your thoughts on this? And how do they get the military to actually comply with the supenoa for the paperwork???