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i cant stand ss12 and sd11 biodads bullshit, i dont think hes human

bigdaddytater's picture

the guy dont make any sense, he is a good con artist and it pisses me off how he lies to make himself look like daddy of the year or shall i say look good in front of everyone else. well i posted a blog a couple of days ago explaining how my ss has a cell phone and he texts messages to his biodad about everything that goes on around here and my wife read what my ss and biodad was texting about. biodad is secretly trying to find some kind of way or evidence to take the kids from my wife. sd11 told us that biodad wants to take wife to court that he claims he has stuff on us. this has been going on for 9 yrs. he has a felony on his record, owes over 4 thousand dollars in back child support. he works at jcpenny shoe department making as little as possible so he dont have to pay so much child support. i would kick his ass if i could get away with it, but what would that solve. he takes online classes and gets a shit load of money from loans and shit. my sd has special needs and he neglects her and pays more attention to ss and buys his love with 200 dollar fender guitar, $200 bike, nintendo wii and sd gets hardly anything. we confronted ss about the texting with his dad to conspire a scheme to get custody of the kids. he dont have shit on us because we raised the kids wonderfully and i looked up something on the internet about parents alienating the other parent to make them seem bad, the kids biodad is brainwashing ss by alienation of my wife. there stepmom and biodad are talking bad about my wife and i in front of them and telling them how bad we are. biodad has brainwashed ss into coming and living with biodad. my wife contacted a lawyer and got some answers and biodad is in contempt of court for what he is doing, so tommorow lawyer told wife to go down to prosecuting attorneys office and get a packet for filling whats going on its a long process and form, but we are tired of biodads bullshit and the only way you can deal with this asshole is going through the legal system. like the title says i dont think hes human cause you can talk sense to this guy.

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Sus's picture

good for you!!!

My youngest is getting married this spring and taking on step children all under 9..well my daughter & fiancee live approx 3 miles from BM and BMparents(maternal grandparents) The BioMom constantly is dumping these kids off at Grands, and spending time with her NEW 3 month BOYFRIEND!!

She spends NO time with the kids..NONE. My daughter has filled in as their MOM now for over a year. My daughter 32, has NO Biochildren yet. She will hopefully next year. But she loves his children, as much as she loves her fiancee.IF their NOT in schhol, their with My daughter when daddy works.(my daughter is a teacher & a degree in Law too)
Now the BM has some DIRT bag living with her in a Apartment. KIDS HATE HIM.
She moved him in within a month, I am told. The children are BEGGING My daughter and their dad to take them..PERMANENTLY.
Anyway Jen, Talked it over with FH and their BUYING a HUGE HOME. 5 bed 3, bath, etc. My daughter owns a condo..Too small for all the kids to live long term but stay with them more then anywhere....THINGS CHANGED FAST,This is where they had planned on living the first year of marriage. ( to save money)
Now things have changed..They hope to close on the NEW HOUSE by May. And they are taking "ALL THE CHILDREN" they already told BM.
She agreed to turn over all custody to my daughter and her FH. And No more CS paid to BM.
Also they are allowing BM NO child support. They rather NOT have money from her. I told daughter to be careful about the NO child support.
Don't SEAL that in cement yet. You might want CS down the road.

They are just wanting the children to have the best life they can, the less BM is involved the better. My daughter talks to the BM and gets along fine. I was really shocked she relinquished custody.
But I am Happy for MY daughter & son in law.
I keep ALL the kids..of his too..They Love me like IM their REAL grandma
You'd never know..that I wasn't Blood related..;-)