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The positive side of disengagement

for the last ten years they have got me down [SD's ], and I didn't realise who much until my friends have noticed how much happy I seem. I feel a lot more upbeat about myself and the hub.

New haircut and started redecorating the house as I did not have the motivation before.

Its the not having to second guess myself all the time, I am doing things now for the people I care about out of love, and not doing things out of obligation or pressure

I just realised how free I feel now


somethingwicked's picture

That's good news.
You have gotten back your self determination and confidence.

Amazing how the skids, a weak DH and toxic BM can disrupt your life.
So wrong but now you live for the people that really care.
And YOU.