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And the blaming begins

bbbbb's picture

Sat in the car on the way to friends yesterday and I just happen to say "should we do xyy next weekend?" the hubs says no I am going to see my grandchild because I haven't seen them since you refused to have anything to do with them. Excuse me have you lost the ability to move your arms and legs.......

I then reminded him that we are a 2 car family and at no point have I told him that he cannot see them, but also I would not be reminding that visits are due as they are no longer in my life. and not to blame me if his priorities are different to mine.

He hasn't seen them since February, and he missed birthdays because I was always the one that arranged things

So the sulking has started

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Acratopotes's picture

hahahahahahaha....... I would burst out laughing and say - what a load of crock... you are an adult, we are not joined at the hip... if you want to go to them.. go , I never said you are not allowed to go, I merely stated I will not ever go again

he wants to blame some one for his actions, I hate it...bloody men

hereiam's picture

I haven't seen them since you refused to have anything to do with them.

Boo hoo, he's a grown man. It's not your fault that he doesn't see them or remember birthdays.

In 20 years my husband has never expected me to remind him of his daughter's birthday or make arrangements for visits.

bbbbb's picture

yep, he is a joy to live with at the moment, cannot be fun dad anymore because he doesn't have to "check with bbbbb", and I am the saver in the family, so his little piggy bank has gone.

Give 3 months before I get a note from them in preparation for Christmas

Aniki's picture

"...I haven't seen them since you refused to have anything to do with them"...

Your DH acts like he needs your PERMISSION to see them. Bahahahahahahahahaaaaaaaa!!! Best laugh I've had in days.