Tired of Living with Moody Men

UGH so last night GG was JUST AS MOODY as he described the Behemoth when married to her.

And he wonders why I am not rushing out to marry HIM!!???

Got the silent treatment all last night and this morning due to the wonderful "love note" that VD (SD12) sent him indicating that she is on the fast track to "raging trollop"

What did he really expect? The Behemoth doesn't parent. She just let's "nature take it's course" and pacifies her children at every turn. And he's been scared shitless from day one to say anything about it, instead misplacing his rage onto me!!

Yeah I vented about the Behemoth and his lovely "angels" b/c I coudn't talk to him about it and it's obvious that the subject continues to be off limits!!

Nice!

Sorry but just so tired of living with drama kings. This is the third one and GG thinks he is SOOOOOOOOOO much better and SOOOOOOOO much different than my first two ex hubbys. Only in that he is SOOOOOOOO much WORSE than them. Yes he can be very generous and handy. But that generosity and handiness comes at a VERY STEEP PRICE!!

Yet I'm JUST LIKE the Behemoth and his life is SOOOOOOO much worse with me than her and his "angels." :sick:

Just needed to vent that. I feel like I'm in my 2nd tortuous marriage again where i had to walk on eggshells daily!!

For those who say "kick his arse to the curb" it's not that easy. GG has become very attached to said house and would easily fight me to the death over it BEFORE the cops arrived on the scene.

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Or how about "it doesn't

Or how about "it doesn't matter how you parent; they'll turn out the way they turn out"

I guess that's NOT the case, eh, GG??!!

Yep I have this house that I own on and it's in my name. GG has become accustomed to having me provide food, clothing and shelter for him while he bites the very hand that feeds him!! He will not move out under any circumstances. Any move on my part would have to be complete NINJA and I don't want to lose financially once again due to a man (even though he said "you lost money on other men so what's the difference now?")

Frankly the difference is that he is turning out to be much WORSE than my two previous ex hubbys!! And why do I have to lose money? I bought it in good faith knowing that he would keep his end of the bargain by remodeling it into something habitable!! After all, he lost BOATLOADS of money to the Behemoth and that wasn't a problem. . .

I know how hard this is. My

I know how hard this is. My mom had to go through this. Dad wouldn't leave (big drunk and mean) so she finally just said f$#^ it and left the house. got an apt before her credit went bad and told him I guess he'll have to just deal with what comes. She finally found someone to do a short sale on it. It really helped but it took a while for her to unload it. He stayed in it for a while until it got locked up for showing for the short sale. He finally left altogether. I really hope this all works out for you. Just keep pressing.