HELL HATH NO FURY LIKE A WOMAN SCORNED
My DH for my christmas present flew in my brother from out of state. This was supposed to be my christmas with my family since I spent thanksgiving with my DH's family. We arrive christmas day at my mothers house at 2:45 to have dinner at 3:30. 3:15 the BM texts my DH saying "your son is waiting for you". So we leave (without eating by the way) get to BM's house by 4ish and the moment my DH walked in the door she's yelling at him saying their son has been waiting for him since 2:00. Now my DH has been texting her since the day before christmas eve trying to find out when we could get my SS. She claims she never got them. He proceeded to show the texts to his son to prove he wasn't ignoring him and was trying to contact her. Enough is enough, he called her a bitch for trying to make him look like a worthless father and that he's done and he's going to take her to court. I, who is not invited in the BM's house b/c she is still upset we got married, has had enough. Today I called to leave my information with an attorney so we can have a visitation agreement drawn up. Her word is obviously worthless unless its only to benefit her. And I'm tired of seeing my SS have such horrible holidays when he should be enjoying them. I only got to see my brother, my christmas present from my DH for a total of 5 hours because of her. HELL HATH NO FURY LIKE A WOMAN SCORNED. I AM TIRED OF HER CHILDISH SELFISH NONSENSE AND WILL HAVE A VISITATION AGREEMENT CREATED ONCE I RECEIVE MY TAX RETURN. IF SHE DOESN'T COMPLY WITH THE ARRANGEMENT PROVIDED BY THE COURTS SHE WILL BE HELD IN CONTEMPT.
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Welcome you sound like a
Welcome
you sound like a very caring person. Has DH ever looked into counseling for SS?
no DH hasn't right now he
no DH hasn't right now he doesn't feel like he has any opportunity for anything we only get SS every other weekend and of course counselors are closed on the weekends. I've considered maybe seeing the pastor that did our marriage counseling prior to our wedding but I don't want to put either DH or SS in an uncomfortable position. BM says she sends him to a psychologist (where she was supposidly told that our getting married was having a huge impact on him emotionally...(total bs). She takes him to a psychologist so she can put him on medicine for adhd..which he doesn't need. What he needs are parents that are willing to go the extra mile to help him out. she does this so she doesn't have to deal with him. Then gives us SS when she's out of medicine.
Even if it isn't in your
Even if it isn't in your court ordered visitation window, maybe offer to get SS to appointments.
After battling with our BM for 6 years, we are finally getting SD and SS into counseling. Both kids have been medicated (including SS being put on an anti-physcotic that has never been approved for use on kids :jawdrop: ). Per the CS agreement, we are responsible for providing the kids with medical insurance so after we found out what meds BM had placed the kids on DH flipped and yanked them out of that doctor's care and they are now going to a new clinic. New Doc is furious about the care the kids have been receiving up to this point and is insisting that the kids go to counseling to see if that will help more then the new (kids safe) meds so that they can get off of them.
SS has been showing sign of a mild form of Autism but has never been tested or evaluated to see what help he needs. BM can't afford the time or money to treat the kids so we are taking on that added burden. But believe me this lack of care will be brought up in court soon.
Not trying to be mean, but
Not trying to be mean, but why would you leave your family affair with your brother to go with DH to pick up SKID!
There are times we cut our own noses off to spite our faces, this sounds like one of them.
I wouldn't have left if it was my brother visiting.
I wouldn't have left
I wouldn't have left either.
And OP, do you WANT to be invited into your BM's home? Why? I wouldn't go in my DH's exes house with a Hazmat suit on.
LOL Aggravated "hazmat" I
LOL Aggravated "hazmat"
I would need one as well. They have dog poop, piss, dirty feet, lice, impetigo, and I am for sure a few "critters" could be found scurrying around at night.
Because I also contributed to
Because I also contributed to SS christmas. I wanted to see the look in his eyes as he opened his gifts. I wanted to see him happy as he played with his new toys. I didn't want to be the "why isn't she here" as he has expressed before. I married a dh with a son, that is my responsibility to act as a parent regardless of what family or friends are in town. If i were the mother should I ditch my son because my brother is in town? Is this just because I am a SM? Why should I be a seperate entity in a family?