SO broke up with me
To be honest I seen it coming. He left in the middle of o it argument and didn't come back.
Part of me is scared. My family live all over the country and I have no one to help me. My daughter is mine and due to her weak immune system can't be in a daycare or at school. My son is only 1. Both of my children's fathers work different schedules. But I don't think I love him.
Our fight happened because I'm tired of him telling me how I feel. You're being too sensitive. Go take a nap now. Shut up. Stop talking. I wanted us to have a good day but you ruined it are the common phrases I hear. I'm scared because I'm alone and know I'll barely be able to make it on my own with no help. It was hard working when it was just my daughter and I. Part of me wants to beg him back but I know he'll just keep controlling me. And I'm tired of it.
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What do you mean
What do you mean "no help?" File for child support first thing Monday for the child you have with this guy and for your daughter if you have not already. You did not create these children alone and their fathers need to assist financially. Then start looking for a job that you can do from home or for in-home care for your special needs daughter so that you can work outside the home. But "begging for him to come back" or taking him back if he walks through the door again just so that you do not have to be alone is something you will regret.
you dodged a bullet
I guarantee if he comes back, he will be 1,000 times worse after a brief "honeymoon" period to bait and switch you.
Then when YOU want him gone and find him revolting, he will NEVER leave.
So sorry this has happened to
So sorry this has happened to you.
Take each day as it comes. Ask friends for help if you need it (even phone support from them if they live far away), and tackle finances like CS even if you don’t want to (or it will add to your stress later on).