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I am sure many of you have read my stuff well soon to be SS8's biological mom is not in the picture and he has no memory of her.

Anyway I finally got curious after a year and half and dug for more information about her. SO knew her current married name plus I figured it out through google.

Yup had one of those interesting moments.

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I drop off future SS8 at daycare the other day and they come up to me asking me to fill out some paper work because some information was missing. Basically his BM's info was blank on the Emergency contact info.

I just said oh that is not me I am on the list but I am not the BM, SS8 was out of ear shot for all this. I also mentioned just in case she is never to be contacted and if by random she calls she is not allowed. Literally court documents say so.

OT-Worried about future SIL.

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I know I have vented about my future in-laws on here plenty. Things have gotten so much better now that we are in our house. They seem to be respecting our wishes. My future MIL brought plants over to pant in our yard and garden to do yard work all weekend while future FIL helped SO tile our shower and I painted our bedroom.

Cell Phones...Father's Day....SS asking me for everything.

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I know strange title for this blog but it is about a few things.

1. I think the future in-laws mentioned to SS8 about getting a cell phone again and they would pay for it. SO does not want his son to have a cell he is way too young and I agree. This was brought up at dinner on Sunday when we had all the parents over and his sister to celebrate Father's Day! They said they would do so they could get a hold of SS8. They can call my SO or even me it is not like I won't give him the phone to talk.

Week one as a kind of SM went pretty good!

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Well I made it through my first week as my SO and SS8 moved in. Man oh man was I tired getting up at 5:15am. That was my choice so I could have alone time to drink my coffee and get ready before SS woke up. He is super easy wakes up to an alarm clock (totally his choice he wanted one), grabs a yogurt and watches cartoons for about 20 minutes before I take him to day care. SO is at work so I drop him off on my way to work. It only takes me a few extra minutes to drive there walk him in and check him in and leave. No big.

Kid will be OK but SS is in big trouble!

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The kid that SS hurt is going to be ok. They were able to fix him up.

I got more of the story last night too. SS broke a big rule and is in big trouble. For those of you who keep saying my SO does not parent he does. He is the one that is always laying down the punishments. This time no tablet/video games, he lost the privilege of having a T.V. in his room out our house, no friends coming over or him going to a friends house for a while...probably a month.

Future In-Laws make me Crazy!

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Not trying to hog things today but the future in-laws make me crazy.

I asked my SO if he told SS8 about the great grandfather passing away. He told me he was going to but already knew because my future FIL told him this morning before school. SO was still at work he switched to nights. I know none of my business I get it. Oh man it makes me crazy though when both his parents have both said things to me about how my SO should do more and he does not parent his son all the time, and they raised SS8 and basically make it seem like my SO has done nothing.

How young is too young?

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So today I found out the my future MIL father passed away last night. He is older but I do believe it was a little unexpected, he was in the hospital but I do not think that anyone saw this coming. I feel bad for MIL and she was in FL visiting him while he was in the hospital so at least her mother has someone there to be with her and support her.

All this brought up a very interesting thing to me besides so many other things. I know that my SO and his whole family will be at the funeral, I am not sure where it will be at yet so I am not sure if I will be going.

One step Closer to full blown StepMOM!

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Hi I was debating about posting this because of the criticisms that I will likely receive. This past weekend I had one of the most exciting weekends of my life. My SO and I closed on our house and renovations are fully underway. The day we got the house and the keys SO popped the question down on one knee and everything. It was absolutely perfect and amazing.

I was in total shock and no where near expecting it. I knew we had kinda talked about it but I thought it was so far in the future. I just wanted to share my exciting news.

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