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Need advice SS8 constantly getting sore throat!

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Ok. So SS8 literally has had swollen tonsils about 6 or 7 times in the last year. Every time goes to the doctor gets a strep test and comes back positive. This kids tonsils literally are like the size of golf balls when he get sick. SO has taken him to the doctor but so has the g-parents. The pediatrician has not said anything about removing them. I think is freaking crazy.

Well I got compared to the G-parents

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Last night SS had football practice as SO and him were leaving he comes back and asks if I am going. I said I might walk down but I really want to clean. I have been dying to like super clean clean the floors in the house and they were both gone so perfect. We have all hardwood and the place that finished them for us told us to do a water and vinegar mix to clean them really good.

OT-Read your old blogs

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Hey, I will not keep this up long. If you go back and read some old blogs you have it is a little funny reading with all the posts taken out.

No it is not funny that people were blocked that is not at all what I am saying. I went to read an old blog and now it is all chopped up and reads kind of funny.

Sad too because I sometimes refer back to reread some advice but it is now gone. Sad

Kids and Sports...was it always like this?

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Signed SS8 up for football this year. First time he is trying it usually does Fall Ball.

Anyway starting next week he will have practice m-th every night at 6. Yes that is 4 nights a week. When school starts it is three times a week and games once a week.

Is it just me or was it not like this 20 years ago. I do not remember my brother playing that much when he was younger and playing tackle football.

Is this the new normal with kids and sports?

I swear it was the Twilight Zone....

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SS and I went and ran errands in the morning because SO's worked friday night and needed to get some sleep. I do not mind. First few stores SS did not touch everything and pretty much kept his hands to himself. Something SO and I have been working on. Last store he got a little antsy but stopped eventually so good news.

So this weekend went to SO's cousin's kids b-day it was nice, fun, and so peaceful. Played in the pool and just had a really good time.

What would you make of this?

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Just to start off I kinda stayed out of this one.

So went to SO's sister for dinner last night. We picked up SS and ate there with his parents too. His mom is clearing things out and brought a bunch of boxes and stuff for her house like old trophies, and things from when she was younger. She was so pissed because she told her mom to just throw away everything.

I saw the actual Court Order!

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Well I saw the actual court order last night and it was kinda close to what my SO said. I honestly do not think he lied to me but did not remember exactly what it said because he has not looked at it in years.

He has full physical custody. Now here the the part that I was not expecting she has "liberal custody rights" that is how it was worded I think. It also said that both parties had to agree on when SS would be allowed to see her.

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