Skid VS biokids when does the jealousy end!?!
DH and I have DD 6 months, DS3 and BS8 (from previous marriage) DH has SD10. When DH first started dating he always had just a one bedroom apartment and you couldn't even tell he had a kid. He kept most of her things in a tote in his closet and she had no clothes at his place. When we moved in together it changed. We didn't have baby yet but SD10 wasn't as bad with her behavior towards DS3 and BS8. Her behavior got extremely bad when SD and BS has to share a room which at the time they were totally ok with. That's when her jealously over my son started. She didn't like that he had a lot of clothes and things in the room so she brought over a crap ton of things most
of which she doesn't use. We made sure she had her own closet, drawer, space and they have bunk beds. She still didn't like the idea and she became very rude to my son and began moving his stuff whenever he wasn't home. One time I found his legoland photos and his Roswell license plate in her toys bin when I was cleaning up. They were hanging in his space on the bottom bunk. I found his calendar in his closet because she said it was too "scary" even tho is was no where she could see it. I started telling DH about her behavior but of course he would make excuses. BS8 is very passive and sweet so he doesn't tell SD10 anything but I hear the way she talks to him.tells him it's non of his business when he tries
to have conversations with her, tells him to leave her alone all the time but when daddee is around of course she loves hanging out with BS. One time I caught her moving all her stuff on top of his drawer and shoving his stuff over because he "needs to share everything with her" meanwhile her drawer was empty on top. I disengaged after I made rules for the room because she kept locking BS8 out and taking his markers and stuff home wit her . Now she has started putting all her junk in spaces ( even if DS or DD is using it) she will put toys on the spaces and things she doesn't use, I have just been putting them back in her bag when she goes. She constantly blames DS for everything to daddee and she cries when and says "did you tell DS also" she has just gotten worse since DD 6 month was born. Now she constantly mops or says "I'm sad" if DH is holding DD or if we go to MiL house and of course then greet DD and attention is not on SD she sits in the corner until someone notices she is "sad" . SD had no relationship with her half siblings and doesn't even acknowledge them when she is here. She gets plenty of one
on one time with DH . Does this jealousy ever end? Since I'm disengaged what do I do about her being rude to DS? It happened just now when DS called SD on his ipad (SD would FaceTime him a lot to find out what we were doing) she told BS in a mean bossy attitude to not call her and to only call in case of a emergency. Poor DS was like "ok sorry I was just calling you back"