So SD is finally over , I'm assuming only because her birthday is tomorrow so time to gather gifts . She has not been over in about a month , she is barely here now and when she is here she sleeps on one of the couches( we have 2 very large sofas) she has never complained . We are in the process of getting a bunk bed but literally she is never here, and we have 4 kids who live here . DD1 and DD4 share a room , BS11 and Ds7 share a room. We literally have no space. We are actually trying to clear out some of the babies jumpers and clean out stuff in the garage because it's way too clutter. Guess what SD13 walks in with today? I huge ass heavy cot thing !!! I'm just like omg are you serious? I know this was 100 percent BM , is SD too good for the couch. Also BM didn't even bother to ask if that was ok before lugging this thing over here. I'm so annoyed because I do not want to make space for yet another thing when we are trying to get rid of things .we also have a huge play pen that takes up most out or living room for the baby ( we have 2 big dogs that roam around) . This is just another thing SD does to gain sympathy yet never ever tells her dad anything but SD is really quick to complain or lie to BM and her family about us. Her last lie was that we force her to watch and sitter our kids which caused all sorts of drama. I guess now it's Poor SD has no where to sleep to BM gets her a cot then forces it on us. If SD was uncomfortable sleeping on the couch then SD should have said something to DH about it and we could have figured it out. I want to have a talk with DH and get this thing back to BM. What do you guys think ?