SD birthday… the drama continues
So all the sudden BM decided to be a mom and actually do something for SD birthday which she has not done anything for the past couple of years... Usually MiL plans something small for SD on her birthday weekend because lately it has been landing on DH weekend.. BM has never had a problem with it at all until now of course .BM took it upon herself to book a place for her and SD to go out of town next weekend (DHs weekend) she never told DH anything about it until now or did she ask him if it was okay and now she is all upset because how dare someone try to make plans on DH weekend for SD and not know BM plans! So MiL texted SD asking her if she wanted to celebrate her birthday this weekend with them and of course all the sudden SD wants to come and celebrate. BM told her she would cook for her and ask if she wanted BBq and SD said yes, then SD came back and said she might have plans next weekend with BM so MIL said "I'll ask her " so apparently MIL asked BM and BM told her she already made plans with SD next weekend. So MiL said ok we will celebrate when it's time for SD to come back again. BM then went completely off to DH about it and how she made Plans with SD already next weeks and she is not Losing out on money because SD wanted to come and celebrate with MIL next weekend. She said MiL was being shady by going by going behind her back and talking to SD and making plans . I'm Ike omg first of all no one even knew about BM plans and second MIL cant Text Sd and ask her what she wants to do on a weekend that should
belong to DH?!?!?! This woman I swear !!! Then she went off and said how she is the sole provider for SD and does this and that ... oh lord ... DH didn't reply this time at all. So I'm guessing MIL plans to do something next month since that's when SD may come again and next month is both my sons birthdays and it bothers me because this always happens! Either SD doesn't come when she is suppose to on her b day weekend or most of the plan MIL plans things so last mintier we are literally celebrating her birthday a month later which runs into DS and BS birthdays which is sept 23 and 25 , SD birthday is august 26th. BS I guess is bothered my it because he always ask why we have to celebrate SD birthday in his birthday month and everything is about her first then about them.. and I guess yes that is annoying esp when her birthday is a month before but we are gonna run into that issue again this year ....
BM was full of cussing and just constantly contradicting herself. She goes on to basically again call DH a bad father for not spending enough time with SD but then always wants to plan things on his weekend... and how she doesn't wanna get screwed out of spending time with Sd on her birthday .. I'm thinking where the hell were you for the past 5 years on her birthday??? Didn't seem to bother her then