Not sure what to do (Cont. from MiL favors SD)
So I recently posted about my MIL showing favoritism towards SD12 which is beyond annoying ! SD rarely comes now so thankfully when we see MIL SD isn't with us ... and MIL always ask "where's SD" I feel line saying " you know exactly where she is, she didn't wanna come again" but that would hold SD responsible and we can't have that! Well my MIL made plans with my SIL on July 4 th weekend for all of us to go the the beach together ! Which is awesome because i enjoy hanging out with SIL and DH niece who is 19, they all really enjoy having DD3 and DS5 around as well BUT that weekend is DH weekend to have SD and I cringe at the thought of mIL sucking up to SD the whole entire day. We have never ever really gone and done anything like this with MIL and SIL ever . Last time they all went to Florida and took SD but didn't even ask to atleast take BS who was probably almost 5 at the time which I thought was shitty . So anyways I'm conflicted, I wanna go and have a good time with the kids at the beach with SIL and DH but I do not at all feel like being around MIL with Sd there. I'm hopinh
maybe it's a weekend when SD is too tired to come but I think DH might beg her to come ... what do you guys think ?