I knew this day would come! BM is a huge B
My DH lost his job a few weeks ago but BM was still getting child support from what he paid through the portal until he literally Could not pay . They had court with the attorney general and finally his amount was reduced due to him not having a job right now . They were still basing what he paid off of an old jobs pay so BM was getting well over what she should. I just knew it was only a matter of time before BM made her move to punish DH and here we are. BM moved 3 hours from us but it was agreed that her and DH would Meet half way to get SD EOW but here lately it has been excuses from BM saying Sd is too tired to come so SD rarely comes To visit . DH has worked a few odd jobs last weekend so he has a bit of money for now and has 2 interviews lined up. Well BM text DH today say she will not be meetinG him half
way Friday because she can not afford it and it cost her $80 to put gas in her car ( a Luxury suv her ex still pays for) and since she's not getting support from DH she has to worry basically about herself. She went on and on how she is a single mother who has to pay
all her bills and crap now on her own and blah blah blah! I'm thinking omg lady give me a damn break ! I am a mother of 3 supporting my whole family On my income and making it work! She is the one who decided to move far away but now DH has to not see SD because she all the sudden is not getting child support ( it's been maybe about a month) of course she has to blame
DH and make him feel like shit because she is selfish ! There were years when I didn't receive a dime from my ex for our son but I still let him have his weekends with him because I don't believe in using my child as a pawn! Also BM has her boyfriend living with her so she is not paying every thing on her own! I told DH she can't with hold SD because he is not paying support right now that he doesn't have a job and if she does he needs to make
note of each time it happens and bring her to court!