Am I wrong ? Handling overstepping MIL
My MIL, SIL and I have always had rocky relationship but for the most part it has been okay. They both love to think that DH could do no wrong .... but DH and I got into a argument about a month ago in which DH decided to tell his mom about our issues and they decided to pick DHs side over mine which is whatever... but they have also told DH that they don't want me around and they don't want me to come over to their house (as if I want to) and they are calling me names . DH was dead wrong in our argument just FYI. DH is very passive and doesn't like conflict so he has basically not seen his mom or sister since this whole mess and he has not told him anything they have said ( I saw their conversation in a text) also DH is not putting them in their place as well so this is all just one huge mess. I have decided to just avoid them and their toxicity so this mean MIL and SIL have no been ask to baby sit for us. Also on social media MiL use to always comment and like photos i would post of the kids and since this drama has occurred she stopped which I think is wrong, the kids did nothing to her. Since she has decided to act this way towards us I decided if I'm not welcome at her house my kids are not either .. and with her being toxic and calling me names I for sure do now want her around our children... I'm just not sure this is the right way to handle things, especially since DH is not. A situation has come up in which MIL has asked DH to take his uncle on a tour of down town since he flew in last weeks. DH and MIL both do not work the day she wants him to do it and she asked DH to let her watch the children while he is out with his uncle since it's during the day. I will be working from home but obviously I have a real problem with my kids being with her and I don't know how to handle it... I have already made it clear that me and the children wil not be going to her house during the holidays while she is still holding onto this grudge but I told DH he can go alone . I'll be with my family . Any thoughts ?