I am sooooooooo glad the holidays are officially over omg! I can finally go a weekend without SD being around !! It's been a long 3 weekends with SD . Of her manipulation, drama filled antics! DH really really put his foot down finally this weekend ! BM and SD were already making plans with SIL for NYE with out informing DH of it .
I thought with Christmas being over finally (so sad I can barely enjoy it now) that would be the end of SDs continued antics to drive a wedge between me and DH, SIL and MIL.. no no there's always NYE! I literally HATE the holidays this year because so how we have SD the weekend before Christmas then SD rushed off to SIL house Tuesday ( DH dropped Her off because she didn't wanna be here and wanted to be with SIL ) .
So I'm planing to have a much needed talk with SD on her next visit, no text like she likes to do... it will be face to face . As predicted, after spending time with MIL and SIL (whom I'm sure had a heavy hand in SD text to DH) SD sent DH a text last night about me. Why SD had to wait until she was with MiL and SIL to wanna "talk" to DH is beyond me. Her text basically blamed me for not wanting to have anything to do with SD.
So in my last post I was really really upset about the once again power move played by BM in order to yet again NoT have SD for the holiday break or Christmas ! She does this every year where we get SD on DH weekend ( about a week before Christmas) and BM ends up leaving SD with us or she will text MIL to have SD stay extra and ALWAYS gets her after Christmas!
Ohhh the holiday season! I just know there will be a battle between DH and I over SD 13 whom chooses when she wants to see her dad ( which has not been lately ) and SD ignores his texts and phone calls but SD always pops up when it's her birthday of course . Let me Remind you this is the super entitled SD who just turned 13 but is going on 16 , never acknowledges her siblings , or me For that matter . Sleeps until 11am and doesn't like to help out with the little things DH tells her to clean up or help . It's just drama when she does come over ..
HUGE eye roll!! DH has hasn't SD for almost 2 weeks what she wants for Christmas. SD13 ignored him for the first week. To me that would mean GREAT that means you want nothinh you entitled little Shhhiieett . DH texted SD again in which she replied days later "idk" cool you get a gift card! Ohhh but today BM send out SD magical Christmas list to the masses which included DH , MIL and SIL , this is with out them even requesting it....
Or as I like to call it... "let's act like we care about DH and others season" I literally cringe now at the Holiday season only because of SD13! She has managed to ruin every Christmas holiday ( and BM to be fair ) but the last 2 Christmas have been great due to her last year not wanting to come at all because MIL was not gonna have a party because she had COVID and the year before we had COVID so she did not come . This and really every holiday is BMs time of year to act like she is not doing anything for the holiday and usually will leave SD with us the entire holiday...
So for the past very few times SD has been over I have been noticing strange things about her ... she always leaves her unpacked stuff all over her bed so when I go in there to get items for DD ( they share rooms) I see her crap all over her bed. Well I have noticed boys boxer briefs there before ( like the tight shorts kinds) my sons wear them so I was like ok...... I didn't think much of it really but then Saturday I noticed Old Spice deodorant on her bed as well which I thought was very strange! Did she grab a wrong one or something I have no idea.
Happy Friday first of all !!!! I will be SD free this weekend even tho it's her weekend to come . So another holiday season is around the corner on steplife , to some this is a joyous event but for me it never ever has been. Right now it really is not something I look forward to on In law side. Of course my sister has already told us she is hosting thanksgiving lunch ( my family actually plans things in advance) so we will be going over there thanksgiving afternoon and usually we go to MIL house in the evening for their version of thanksgiving dinner and stay pretty late ...
My MIL, SIL and I have always had rocky relationship but for the most part it has been okay. They both love to think that DH could do no wrong .... but DH and I got into a argument about a month ago in which DH decided to tell his mom about our issues and they decided to pick DHs side over mine which is whatever... but they have also told DH that they don't want me around and they don't want me to come over to their house (as if I want to) and they are calling me names . DH was dead wrong in our argument just FYI.