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I smell BS… what do you guys think

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So of course BM is still texting with DH, it's become a daily thing. After DH declined his optional weekend (this weekend, technically it's BM weekend) and BM cried about how she made plans today for her new BF birthday ... all the sudden now she has "job training" in another state for a week Jan 31-Feb 5th.

Weekend update!! You Guessed it Guys!

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Soo I wanna LMAO, after some thought and a few things popping up this weekend DH declined a "make up weekend" (I was getting over Covid last weekend which was his weekend). I thought it was very strange when BM was already reaching out to DH on SATURDAY asking if he was gonna make up his weekend and get SD 2 weekends in a row. He stopped make ups after BM moved far and she has not asked for make ups if he missed which occurred once. I knew she was just trying to makes plans ... and I was right !!

Do y’all do make up weekends?

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Hello guys I'm following up from my last post... DH missed his this weekend due to me having a postive Covid test and low fever Friday and Saturday . Bm was still trying to send SD over but DH had to just say NO! Anyways it's Sunday and she is already bugging DH if he is going to get SD for the next 2 weekends!! BM knows already if DH misses his weekends do you something he can't control he just waits for his weekend to roll around , I'm not sure why she is asking already...DH told me to I guess get my opinion but he knows already how I feel.

Covid or not BM doesn’t care rant

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So I ended up taking another Rapid Covid test Thursday after I had a positive PCR a few days prior . The Rapid came back positive . DH told BM when I tested positive with the PCR because its DH weekend. BM didn't really seem phased by it and even said "did you all just have Covid lol" we had Covid a year ago in which DD 2 caught it, DS5, BS10 and both DH and I did as well and trust me it was not funny, I'm not sure wtf she would even think someone have Covid is funny but that's ignorant BM.

Turns out I had Covid !!

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Im not sure if you guys remember my blog but the whole family (lives in our house) was sick right before New Year's Eve. The kids were actually feeling better with no symptoms. I took a test during the test I was really sick ( rapid test) came back negative. SD came over on New Years weekend . I took another test ( rapid and PCR ) on Jan 5th, rapid came back negative . I am suppose to start a new job today which is why I had to take the Covid test and I just got the results from my PCR and it's postive?! I don't think I can start work until I get a negative test .

Has anyone had to confront a BM and how did it go.

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I feel like the time is coming very soon for me to confront BM and I know many on here have advised me not to. Her behavior to me is of someone who thinks she can do and talk mess about Anyone in my family and it's ok because DH doesn't tell her anything to "keep the peace " why the f they feel like they need to keep the peace with a POS is beyond me. BM has lashed out against DH which I would not step in because he is a man he can handle himself. The point to where I am on edge about is BM has recently talked vulgarly about myself and my young children. This included name calling .

** Update to NYE plans BM was trying to force

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So if you guys recall I posted about BM INSISTING SD be either dropped off or picked up to go the MIL New Years Eve party . This is one week after we found out SIL tested postive for Covid and mIL was exposed but would not test... all of which BM knew! BM kept texting DH insisting SD go because supposedly SD was really really wanting to go ... DH told BM we were all staying home for NYE due to the fact that we didn't know if SIL  or MiL received a negative Covid test and we were all recovering from a nasty cold .

Here comes BM to step in on our plans

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BM has really been extra extra this holiday!! So with MIL and SIL testing postive for Covid before Christmas we most certainly not gonna go see them for news years Eve ( even tho they are having a New Year's Eve party ) and we all at home are recovering from a horrible cold which i am still not feeling well. So I decided with DH that we are staying home for New Year's Eve with the kiddos. I bought a bunch of snacks to make for the kids and fun drinks.

I know it’s Christmas but I am annoyed AF

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So DH sister and her husband tested positive for Covid  on Thursday. MIL was around them and has yet to take a test. The whole last week when DH tolD BM that his family was exposed to Covid and MIL x mas party was most likely canceled (he didn't know the results yet) BM kept asking for updates and wanting DH to still get SD Thursday-Sunday ( BM pulls this skip out on x mas every year) BM leaves 3 hours away so it's not always easy to get get SD whenever he wants and it's BM weekend.

How do you do rooms in a blended family?

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So rooms have always been a sticky situation in our family with BS 10, DS 5 , DD 2 and SD 12. When DH and I first met in SD 12 never had her own room at DH because DH lived in a 1 Bedroom apartment. SD always had her own room at BM house . SD was about 7 when we got together . We moved in our first house togehter ( before DD was born) and SD had her own small room and BS and DS shared the larger room in the 3 bedroom house . We moved to another 3 bedroom house and SD and BS shared a room since they were always together and DS had his own room.

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