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Well things were going good…

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Since my last post things have gotten better with SD only . When SD came over I had a little chat with her and I think it's what she has been waiting for . I told SD that she will always be welcome in our home and we all wish she would come more often, I told her whatever is conversated between her mother and I has no reflection of my feelings towards her and I have hoped we can start to build a closer relationship. I told her I want her to feel comfortable with me and if she wants to talk to me about anything she can. We gave each other a hug and it was a very good weekend.

BM is making her rounds to MiL and SIL

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So after BM cussed me out over the phone and he not contacted DH since I guess she is making her rounds to MiL and SIL to of course get their petty and to side with her ...DH has been trying to reach SD for days to have a talk with her , he has texted her, FaceTime her and called her and all got ignored . Today he decided to finally shut off her phone because BM emailed DH saying "I got her a new line so you can cancel her line now.

BM called me and it was not pretty

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After verbally attacking myself and my kids for years and doing it pretty much all week then BM called me so maybe we could have a adult conversation and stop all this crazy drama . Well I guess she thought I was gonna join her on her bashing on DH or something and just say how sorry I felt for her , that did not happen. The conversation started out calm , I told her I did not appreciated her constantly attacking my family. Of course she denied it but I told her I saw all her text and then she apologized for it.

Moving on.. in every way

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We moved into our new house this past weekend and yes it has been hectic during the move and everything is a mess but the home is so much better! We are on living in peace amongst the moving chaos . While packing up DD3 and SD13 room I got rid of a bunch of junk from SD and DD. Anything from SD that has not been worn or used in 3 years was gone. I took apart her bed to keep it for storage , I told DH then when we moved DD 3 and DD 8 months would share a room since the baby had no space . After what happened during SD "visit " DH fully agreed with it .

When it’s finally time to throw in the towel

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I think DH has reached his limit with the games of both BM and SD. So much has been brought to light since SD left our house on Saturday with out DH giving her permission to do so. But yet again BM , BM mom and SD made the decision for him while I was out working and I was home with SD. BM spent the whole day yesterday attacking DH , myself and our children. And when DH would not answer her phone calls BM would use SD phone . It has gotten bad!

Last straw SD… last damn straw

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A day of reckoning has come for SD and I'm not holding back anymore. I am tired of this little sht disrespecting us , our house and rules! I am over MiL and SIL blaming me for SD not coming around when yet again SD has said she doesn't wanna see them !!!! Of course there's drama again because SD is here , we had a peaceful month but here it is only Saturday and there's drama !! So DH has photo jobs booked today from 8am -2 pm and then again from 5pm - 9pm.

The fakeness starts now

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SD is gracing us with her presence after taking a month break from not coming on DHs weekend and honestly it has been soooooo peaceful and nice NOT having her around! No drama in the house at all and we have doing things more as a family. I didn't even think SD was coming today because DH will be gone all day tomorrow on 2 jobs and I did not want to be stuck with her! But DH did the long trip to get her tomorrow. I made plans with my mom to go dress shopping ( DH and I are renewing our vows) and maybe go to lunch .

MIL got told by DH… Finally!

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And I am off in the corner trying to cover the huge smile on my face!!! Lol as you know my MiL has decided for some reason to hate me, I think it's because she is jealous she can no longer control DH. MIL has said horrible things about me to DH with any real reason and has accused me of being greedy, selfish and the list goes on! She has told DH to leave me to make SD happy since I'm the reason apparently why SD doesn't come over as often. Well MIL is a tax account, she has a very small ( questionable) business doing taxes.

Update to mini vacation

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The vacation was really nice ! The kids enjoyed themselves and the fresh air was very much needed! And  NO SD did not come , BM retreated when DH was questioning her why SD flew back alone. He asked "didn't you go to Florida with her, why is SD flying back alone" BM didn't answer of course... but I knew well duh BM didn't go with SD lol . But I'm sure BM will use this to throw back in DH face "you never spend time with SD " even tho it was her who booked the trip on his weekend and then tried to ask we go out of or way to get her when she scheduled her flight to return home a day earlier.

Of course BM, of freaking COURSE

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Y'all when I tell you I'm OVER the constant crap from BM! It's been back to back of something from BM and she just won't go away! I'm done with her damn games! So remember when I told you she planned a little "spring break" vacation for SD to go to Florida Thursday - Sunday ( on DH weekend) . First off spring doesn't even start until March 13 so I'm not sure why she planned it before actual spring break. I'm not even sure BM is actually going with SD, I think her mother is taking SD.

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