I have been really enjoying my weekends since SD has not been over is a few weeks! Sometimes I am grateful BM keeps planning vacations on SD weekend! Means I do not get to see her on DH or the next weekend ( DH does not do make up weekends) it's been so nice and relaxing!! The next time she comes over will be Father's Day weekend which also happens to be DD2 birthday, I expect her to be extra extra annoying that day so I'll enjoy my little break
So due to nasty weather my DH job got cancelled today which means he will be getting SD later for his weekend instead of tomorrow .... so I hope and pray for a good relaxing weekend ( which never happens). I know SD will be super extra because she has not been here for 2 weeks. I do plan on keeping busy this weekend and let DH know I may not be around much. Send some good vibes y'all lol
OF course BM has to come and all the sudden change her mind (big surprise but I called it) so BM made a huge fuss about not wanting SD 11 for Mother's Day ( it so happen to be DH weekend) SD 11 was with us last year for Mother's Day and BM usually flakes out on holidays even though she has full custody . She even threatened DH by saying he wouldn't see SD for a whole month if she didn't keep his weekend because they were conveniently going out of town on his weekend which is this weekend. First I knew she was just trying to guilt him because school is not out until the end of may .
I will and I'm upset about it!! It's DH weekend but BM was asking to keep her, my DH messed up by saying he would get back with her about it. Today DH told me we will have SD because BM doesn't want to have her anymore this weekend not even on Mother's Day! She said for them to meet the normally times which is late ( drive is 2 hours so he is home at 9:30pm). He was shocked she didn't even want her Mother's Day and told her that it was wrong BM doesn't want her any holiday and she was also with us last year for Mother's Day also .
So after missing her weekend, SD has finally come after not being over for 2 weeks. And she is making up for it with her constant need for attention and extra-ness and I am beyond annoyed! She come over with her long fake nails BM took her to get done and with her expensive air Jordans which she has to always place on top of the table or chairs because they are too expensive to touch the floor. And she made it a point to tell the other kids who expensive they were and to not touch them!
I just need to vent please.. I can't control the situation of having a bratty AF SD 11 so venting is all I have! In my previous post I told y'all how bitter and crazy BM is and SD is her little mini me manipulative clone! She didn't come her weekend because SD11 wanted to spend time with her friends in which BM encouraged it. DH told both of them he would not do a "make up weekend" so SD would not come back again until her weekend which is today.
If you follow me you know this issues we have with SD11. I haven't posted in a while because things have been ok. Thought I was preggo but turned out to be stress lol! So crap hit the fan this past weekend when DH was suppose to get SD11 on Friday. BM all the sudden remembers that now SD has made a friend finally in the new city she lives in ( they moved about a year ago 3 hours away) now SD doesn't want to come on Friday, she wants to come on Saturday instead so she can be with her friend.
MIL treats SD like a baby and it's annoying AF. So as a rule I do not like to go to MIL house when we have SD who is 11. DH and SD can go but I do not go because MIL does nothing but compare DD 2 to SD and it's beyond annoying!!!!! For example " SD did that when she was DD age" " that reminds me of SD when DD does that" it's like ok I get it they are both girls but let them ha e their individuality! Also it doesn't encourage SD to act her age and she alrready acts like a baby as it is! SD still carries around a stuffed animal everywhere she goes when she is with us.. why? Who knows .
It's yet another dreaded weekend with SD starting today! Last time she was here it was absolutely horrible! Also I have been feeling horrible all week, I am thinking I might be pregnant so I'm trying to just deal with that ( testing tomorrow ) I am no mood to have to deal with sassy , entitled brat!!!! This will be a great great shock if I'm pregnant and I hate to say it but it will no be welcomed by my family ... it is what it is and I had to vent it out...
You guys ! This weekend was by FAR the worst weekend with SD 11 in a long time !! Just when I think it's not so bad , SD has to royally screw up a weekend! I'm sure y'all saw my drama with the paper / tag and the plushie! Oh so many plushies !!! After DH told her and told her so many times to keep her stuff togehter and to put here plushies up high ( she just HAS to keep bringing them every weekend it's a new plushies to leave at our house ) she still does not listen!