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Not sure what to do (Cont. from MiL favors SD)

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So I recently posted about my MIL showing favoritism towards SD12 which is beyond annoying ! SD rarely comes now so thankfully when we see MIL SD isn't with us ... and MIL always ask "where's SD" I feel line saying " you know exactly where she is, she didn't wanna come again" but that would hold SD responsible and we can't have that! Well my MIL made plans with my SIL on July 4 th weekend for all of us to go the the beach together !

Do your in-laws play favorites?

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My MIL does and it's really annoying . Maybe not favorites but she treats SD12 differently then DH and I kids DD3 and DS5. SD doesn't really give a crap about DH mom, she never asks to see her or anything . I mean I get that's just probably how kids are but still. At MiL house she has a lot of photos of SD framed from when she was a baby still up until a few years ago. She hardly has any photos of DD or DS framed. Maybe like 3 photos at the most . So one weekend we took photos together with DD, DS and DH as a family .

New strategy… making demands, when will it end

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Now BM has changed her tactics and sent DH random texts yesterday ( a day after she went total BIA on him) just saying "how long is she staying, I can ONLY make it work if she stays with you longer" ohhhhh so some how BM only has gas money to meet DH if SD stays with us longer... she didn't ask or even apologiz for her outburst on DH yesterday, she made her demand and DH better agree if he wants to see his daughter. I told him no she NEEDS to make it work because it's your weekend anyways to have SD and it's Father's Day weekend...keep in SD at own house not gonna work for ME sorry BM.

I knew this day would come! BM is a huge B

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My DH lost his job a few weeks ago but BM was still getting child support from what he paid through the portal until he literally Could not pay . They had court with the attorney general and finally his amount was reduced due to him not having a job right now . They were still basing what he paid off of an old jobs pay so BM was getting well over what she should. I just knew it was only a matter of time before BM made her move to punish DH and here we are.

Today I am OVER being a step mom

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Maybe it's the hormones talking ( I'm currently 31 weeks pregnant) or maybe it's the exhaustion but here's my rant! I am fed up with being a step mom and being with someone who has a brat, entitled, baby complex daughter! Maybe it's the way I was raised but shit is starting to chap my butt! I'm over the stupid excuses SD feeds to DH and how DH feeds right back into them , vice Vera for BM.

Pick/drop off issues with gas prices!

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We have another change in our household ( besides me being 31 weeks pregnant) DH was let go from his job due to his numbers being low and he was still on a 90 day probation after being hired ... sucks I know. He applied for unemployment but he got denied for unemployment and he is fighting to appeal it but for no he has no income coming in the house . He gave me his last portion for the rent and that's about it. I will have to take in the bills which will be ok for a while but he has been applying to jobs just about anywhere .

BM maybe moving back .. ugh

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And I'm just not sure how I feel about it at all. BM uprooted her life and SD when she suddenly decided to move 3 hours away to a small town where she had no family or knew anyone . We found out later it was for a guy whom she had a affair with, that didn't work out and she found another boyfriend.. I guess that's not working out so she texted DH saying she is applying to jobs again here ... yay?!??! I mean I does suck when DH has to meet her for SD ( when she actually wants to come ) because it's far And gas ain't cheap now .

Skids and Mothers Day Weekend

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So here it is another Mother's Day and another year that falls on DH weekend . Year after year SD spends Mother's Day with us because BM either wants the weekend for herself or just doesn't care. She doesn't even ask for SD early Sunday. I just don't get it and it sucks for me because then I'm having to spend my Mother's Day with SD when she should at least spend that day with her mother. That day I always spend it with my kiddos DD2, DS5 and BS10 and it's usually spend with my mother and sisters as well.

Venting …. Self absorbed child in the making

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So y'all know it has been a rough few months between BM petty jabs, PAS and SD12 not wanting to come on DH week. Well it's 8:30pm and also it's DHs birthday today in which SD knew because DH reminded her on Monday..and he also told her that she would be coming this weekend for his birthday and it's his weekend... well nothing so far from SD , not a single text her phone call today wishing her dad happy birthday, even DS5 wished his dad happy birthday . Finally at like 6 DH calls SD12 and no answer .

DH birthday weekend and SD forced to come!

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So finally DH called up SD on Monday she said "you are coming this weekend no matter what!" It's his birthday weekend ( birthday is today) and we are having a little dinner at our house this Saturday . DH also made it crystal clear to BM that SD is coming this weekend for sure . Last weekend on Easter Weekend it's was BMs weekend and she just could not resist herself to text DH Friday ( long 4 day weekend in which BM always tries to pawn off SD ) I already knew what she was trying to do with her stupid "LOL" at herself and pointless jabbing towards DH.

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